I have failed more than most men have tried.
Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.
Yeah I got to throw my .02 in here as well. Even perfectgame has it's flaws. There is no way that pu will work 100% if the time. It just won't happen. Sometimes you might simply press the right circuit that gets u in her pants, but in reality she maybe looking for that LTR. I understand your point, but I think it's to simplistic.
tcomea - You need to bump up your sense of optimism, mate! Without question, it is true that pua, even at the world-class level, will not work 100 percent of the time. And obviously, while I am by nature optimistic, I don't believe you can get every girl 100 percent of the time. You are correct on that track.
However, I do believe, if you play it right, you can keep the ones that you do pick up 100 percent of the time. With near-perfect game, anything is possible. That's why we all get into the game! There is always an angle, you just have to find it. Although as nik accurately stated above - Every situation is different, so you have to decide if it's worth the effort. Good topic though...
Quick little 3 month follow-up to an older thread fellas... I might be moving out of town soon, so I threw the bird mentioned in the above thread a brief message the other day just to gauge interest. She's a true HB9, and as noted above, was consistently cheating on her long-term bf with me for several months. While I enjoyed having regular sex with her, that ended about 3 months ago as noted above. So, I threw out this brief email:
Hey stranger! Whatcha been up to? I’m moving out to LA in a couple months to take a job - Starting to clear a few things out of my apt and came across a couple pairs of earrings I think are yours. I also have a blue bikini of yours, which is nice but it really doesn’t fit me all that well. Anyway, let me know when you want the earrings. Hope all is well!
You got a new job in LA? Congrats! I hope it's something along the lines of the job you wanted! When can I stop by to grab those items? Let me know! Thanks!
Any thoughts? Considering I expected nothing but radio silence, I was stunned she responded. I have no idea what kind of Mindset she'll be in. It's possible she may just want to grab her stuff and leave within 30 secs. Or she may be up for staying for a drink. Part of me thinks she may be up for it since there's no particular reason that she HAS to see me. (The earrings are practically worthless). So if she truly wanted to avoid me, she could just not respond.
Question is, how do I play it when she gets here? What's the best angle? Fire off another email to gauge interest?
(One play could be to intentionally give her the wrong pair of earrings )
When you are in it just for sex, girls can sense that - when a quality guy like me comes along, one that is not only cool and fun, but also a provider - what women (not girls) really want - they leave you for us.
Pick Up artist are rebound artists more than they know, and One Night Stand artists. They rarely get invited into a serious relationship.
If her other guy is stepping up and being a real man in the relationship - unless you can do the same you cant win this.
dhv. Be indifferent to the outcome. Don't care