Boy did I goof up. At least I think I did.
Been dating this girl for a while, shes been into me forever. She thought we were going to enter a serious relationship together, so we stopped things. She wanted to have fun and enjoy her life more before committing herself, but she does want a serious relationship with me in the future. However, I wasn't going to "wait" for her.
We remained close friends that acted like a couple. Nothing to complain there, friends with benefits, even though she didn't want to kiss cause she was worried we would enter a relationship......so more like cuddle buddies. Fun.
Lately I told her that I was moving on. A day or two afterwards she comes up to me with the same argument - she was moving on. She has a habit of repeating stuff I do. Like I don't log in yahoo messenger for a day, and the next day she doesn't log in.
Trying to save atleast the cuddling part (I really want something to happen with her, though not onetites. Dammit im becoming needy.), I told her that I really liked her. I never say this kind of stuff so she was touched, apparently she only thought I wanted her to satisfy my physical needs. She always complained that she was confused about us. She admitted her feelings for me too and agreed to remain as we were. However I still want the other physical stuff.
Any advice? I froze her out a couple of times before. They worked, but she would later come complaining about her confusion again.