Dude, you're a bouncer? That's badass and such a huge dhv. You're the one with value and you're the one with power. So use this to your advantage.
A good one will be something like, "Oh no no, you look like total trouble. I'll give you 1 chance, but then I'm going to have to beat you up."
Then tell her to put 'em up and squeeze her little girl muscle and laugh.
Anything can be used as an opener, just have the balls of steel to deliver it any way you want. Fuck what they think, you wanna have a good time