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Thread: Not a hedonist

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    MelbStud Guest

    Question Not a hedonist

    I told a woman that I am seducing that I am not into hedonism.

    Would this help or hinder my seduction?

    Note: A hedonist is one that seeks to maximise the amount of pleasure he has in his life.

    Any thoughts on this?

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    Raven Guest

    Default Re: Not a hedonist

    Random thing to say, but I think that's fine. I'm totally not into hedonism either, I'm a very spiritual guy. Glad that you're not. I really would not want to be with a hedonistic woman either, so I suppose it's a good screen.

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    Default Re: Not a hedonist

    while in the seduction you should avoid telling your targets about your believes

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    MelbStud Guest

    Default Re: Not a hedonist

    Quote Originally Posted by Raven View Post
    Random thing to say, but I think that's fine. I'm totally not into hedonism either, I'm a very spiritual guy. Glad that you're not. I really would not want to be with a hedonistic woman either, so I suppose it's a good screen.
    I'm more a philosophical guy which does entail spirituality I guess. She's a medium and a healer so she is very spiritual. She's hot also.

    Last Wednesday I met her at her work and had a three hour long date with her discussing lots of interesting stuff about psychology and philosophy. I subtly indicated my sexual interest in her in the process.

    I phoned her on Friday and left a message on her voicemail.

    She phoned me back this morning where I said something about the study/research I have been doing. She said "as long as you are doing it with a smile on your face". Which is when I said I wasn't into hedonism. So it wasn't such a random thing to say given the context.
    I asked her out for a meal tonight and she backed out.

    Just wondering what I did wrong.

    I think I have generated attraction and gone some way into building comfort according to MM.
    I will probably see her again at a discussion group that we attend on Tuesday.

    Just on the hedonism issue. She might be wondering why I am talking to her if I'm not seeking pleasure?

    Well the answer to that is that I guess I believe that this is about more than just pleasure.

    Where to from here?

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    MelbStud Guest

    Default Re: Not a hedonist

    Quote Originally Posted by viruscast View Post
    while in the seduction you should avoid telling your targets about your believes
    I guess.

  6. #6
    Raven Guest

    Default Re: Not a hedonist

    I think you're overthinking the comment. I really doubt that particular comment is the reason. Could be many reasons - she might be busy, or a plethora of other issues.


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