I'm an AFC, that much will probably be clear soon and I'm just curious to see what people far more experienced than me in the ways of women will have to say about the situation I'm in. So I'm in a reasonably small college and every now and then a large number of the student body go to this club. So I went and when I was there I tried to dance with this one girl. She gave me a weird look and walked away. So next time I'm at this club, probably a month or so later, I see throughout the night, she turns several guys down. She won't dance with anybody besides her girlfriends, but I still decide to approach her and we end up grinding through three or four songs. The next time I go, I ask my friend to be my wing and he walks up and starts dancing with her friend and I try to dance with her again. She gets up off of me but her friend smiles and pushes her back onto me before she grabs her friends hand and walks away. So, from her friend's reaction, I think they talked about me at least a little bit after the second time at this club and her friend is encouraging this. I have a feeling that the girl I danced with was pretty timid, seeing as all her friends are girls and she refuses to dance with most guys. Since I'm at a small school I see her reasonably often, probably once or twice every other day or so, though it's usually in the cafeteria and she is always with the same group of friends. I am also leaving for a month in a few days and am less likely to see her these next few days since it is finals week so I may need to wait a month to talk to her. What should I do? How should I approach her or her friends who she always seems to be with and what should I say? I know that college game is supposed to be different but any help at all would be very appreciated.