One thing I know that pulls women in is to show some strategic weakness. This is different from coming off as weak. It's more like showing you have a sentimental side or a soft spot.

You know what the best part of the latest Harry Potter flick is? That scene where the girl was removing the memory of her existence. Nice touch by the producers. I mean, that must really hurt right?

You know, when I was young, my parents would take us to the carnival but my Mom would refuse to let me ride the roller coaster. No matter how much I beg! I'd get so bummed out, even corn dogs can't cheer me up.

Now, let's see other give examples so we can all offer constructive help.