One thing I know that pulls women in is to show some strategic weakness. This is different from coming off as weak. It's more like showing you have a sentimental side or a soft spot.

Example:
You know what the best part of the latest Harry Potter flick is? That scene where the girl was removing the memory of her existence. Nice touch by the producers. I mean, that must really hurt right?

You know, when I was young, my parents would take us to the carnival but my Mom would refuse to let me ride the roller coaster. No matter how much I beg! I'd get so bummed out, even corn dogs can't cheer me up.




Now, let's see other give examples so we can all offer constructive help.