Lately I have stopped negging girls and I have stopped being cocky funny in favor of a new approach I call Confident/Funny. I am not quite cocky, but I just act really confident. It seems that since I have taken this approach, it doesn't really matter what I say to a girl, as long as I am funny too. And, I have been doing very well by looking a girl in the eye and giving her a genuine compliment, even at the start or near the beginning of an approach.
Tonight I told a girl I had to talk to her because she had such a warm smile. It charmed the crap out of her it seems. This girl is an HB9 who is has a really bright career ahead of her. I would think to neg this girl before, but instead I was just nice to her, and confident, and it worked. She digs me, and I am totally gonna date her. One of the hottest girls I have attracted all around.
It seems like complimenting girls does work if you do it in the right way, and negging just isn't me. I love teasing, but negging is just mean. When I see videos with Mystery when he's in the field negging, I cringe, I just, don't like it. Maybe it's a personality thing. At any rate, I learned that negging is stupid, and compliments work if you are totally serious and it's not about her body or hotness.
I'm starting to rethink all I learned, and severely question David DeAngelo, although some of his stuff was still beneficial to me. What do you guys think about this approach?