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    LiOnHeArT is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Catering to the field

    Okay guys I have noticed that you have to adapt your game to get different girls but I have not developed something concrete as far as learning what a girl wants out of a meeting with a guy and how to gauge that... Lets just say alot of my targets are looking for boyfriend potential first and sex second and I'm running into that issue a lot (well that and finding alot of girls i run game on taken with actual boyfriends and husbands XD)... I know pandoras box is out there for this but I feel like unless I figure it out myself I have just been relying on somebody else's material so I'm wondering if you guys have any particular method you game these types with..its like the girls want a commitment before the have sex.

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    Yeah, no "quality woman" wants to have sex before a commitment, that's what I learned from experience and from Scot McKay and Steve Nash. Also, no "quality woman" cheats. As Nash says, players get players. There's really two ways to gear your game. You can gear it like Mystery did, he liked what he describes as "the real pretty slutty girls" so he geared his game towards them and got them. Or you can gear it towards the kind of girl you want to be in a relationship with. If you want sex without commitment, then your game will filter out the women who don't want that. If you want a relationship with a certain type of women, your game will help filter out the ones you don't truly want.

    Another thing I learned from Nash (who is Playboy from The Game) is that you really cannot seduce a girl away from a BF. It's real hard unless that relationship sucks. If you do, either she has low standards and wouldn't make a good partner ("once a cheater always a cheater") or it winds up being a scenario where she breaks up with him in order to go directly into a relationship with you. So either way, it's tough.

    If you want sex without commitment, you are going to get girls who want that. If it's vice versa, then you won't. But, you need to keep going for what you want and not try to change the girls who don't want what you want. Trying to change them or get them to do what you want is far more effort than it's worth, you're better off just doing your thing and coming across the girls you want as you meet them.

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    LiOnHeArT is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Catering to the field

    I guess I need help gaming the "good girl types" cause I have been learning how to game too much with the bad girl types.. I know this is gonna sound needy but I couldn't come up with a different way to put it but, I kinda want a partner. As opposed to just random lays

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    Dude, that's not needy in the least bit. You know what you want, and you need to deserve what you want. I actually want the same thing, a wife and not a bunch of random lays and some herpes. Actually, what you really need to know, is this game that is geared to the bad girl types... if you keep running it and getting the bad girls you severely hurt your chances of getting what you want down the line.

    I can help a lot with gaming the "good girl" types, that's what I have been doing lately and to great success. I think I may have met my next GF recently.

    Steve Nash's book How to Get a Girlfriend is all about finding the perfect partner. You can get an extremely hot girl who is also a good girl. You do not need to settle for a mediocre looking good girl, or a hot bad girl. You can tap into that top echelon of women if you know how. I am not trying to sell the guy's book for some ulterior reason, I just bought it not long ago and it was a life changer. Scot McKay has some great things too on this, namely the Deserve what you Want book, which is all about finding a partner.

    You want to transition from using game to get random lays to getting an amazing dating life filled with quality women that you screen in order to find the perfect girl for you. The game you run is different, and the places you look are different. For example, instead of nightclubs and bars I look to dance lessons, church gatherings, charity work or co-ed sports for girls, and I still use dating sites which are great, but I gear my efforts to the good girl. You still need to be funny, get over aa, have openers, work on body language, have some back up routines, look for ioi's - all that stuff - but you need to discard the routines and language that would only work on a "bad girl," and work on being a High Value Man.
    Last edited by Raven; 12-23-2010 at 01:50 AM.

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    Default Re: Catering to the field

    Thanks for the suggestion I enrolled in the mastery series newsletters but really I am trying to spend no money on this part of my life as far as buying advice...I have gotten all of my stuff for free and so far I have seen results that differ in what I used to be like. When you run game on a "good girl" what routines do you use for backup? Also do you tease less? And how do you appeal sexually to these girls if they have a good girl Mindset?

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    Yeah I know what you mean. I would consider Steve Nash to be a solid investment with sure payoffs though, so when you get an extra $30 around... You'll know it's worth it after you get it.

    I use the cube and the lying game among others. Most routines are fine. The fact that sex isn't at the forefront works to your advantage. This means you don't have to focus too much on sexual escalation, and you're less likely to be dropped into the friend zone for being friendly too (although you want to keep romance in play, I still kiss/make out with such girls, although at my age they are increasingly harder to find). In fact, many real good girls will not have sex with you at all for months. Some really will wait 'til marriage, and if they do, it's up to you to decide if you think they are worth the wait.

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    Default Re: Catering to the field

    So are you saying focus more on the rapport and connection aspect cause I feel that will land me in the friend zone a lot? And as far as escalation sounds like you want me to escalate to the top of the ladder and then stop and move slowly is that right?

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    No, you still need to flirt and create sexual Tension and keep the Kino flowing. I am just saying you don't need to escalate all the way to the bedroom quickly. The fact that they usually do not want sex for at least a little while works in your favor because you don't have to escalate to sex within the first few dates (or first date) like you would with many of the girls you might meet in a club. Because those kinds of girls are usually like that, they're "fast." A good girl is slower.

    You escalate, but you escalate more slowly - not to the top of the ladder, but you do need a little push/pull.


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