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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    I always keep in mind Pavlov. It's simple touch them as a reward for ioi's or when you compliment her so subconsciously she thinks touch=good. But definitely don't sneak it in. Be very delibrate and if she responds negatively give her a neg back.

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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    Ok here is how I go about it and it works for me. Mind you this is all situational based so you to gauge your ways of doing this.

    1-Dont look where you are touching. If you have to make it seem normal as in you point at something and whatever.
    2-It's only weird if you make it seem weird or act like its weird.
    3-Sometimes you have to push it to see what you can get away with which lets you know how much you are progressing.
    4-Like Cesar Milan says "Be dominant and Assertive" when you touch. If you lack confidence then the freaking pitbull in them will eat your ass up.
    5-When you touch don't hold for too long depending on where you are in the interaction.

    There are more ways but I'm sure you are getting the point.

    Here is how I would go in say a situation at a club/bar that's high on energy:

    -I see the set.
    -I approach indirect and run something like fark idk High Five. From here I can run a couple of things like spink kiss, just spin, spin and then get a spank from them or I do the spanking.
    -I transition into whatever.
    -Once I'm alone with her I can run my flower deal which allows me to touch her face in a graceful manner without making weird.
    -I can also run a magic trick which allows me to touch her hands.
    -If we are sitting down I can do palm reading and after I'm done with it place her hand on my leg and let it go which serves a few purposes.
    -If she has tattoos then we can compare specially because she will notice mine since they are freaking huge and allows her to touch me or for me to touch her.
    -If we both smoke then we can go smoke. I lead by her hand. Further in the interaction I lead with my hand on her lower back.
    -If you run almost any type of compliance test that allow you to touch her that works also.
    -This one sounds stupid but I only use it during dates. I play patty cake. It sounds retarded but it has yet to fail me.
    -When she introduces herself by name I take her hand and I go for the kiss on her hand (but instead kiss my own). I stole that one from Jeffy from Social Dynamics.


    That's a few of the things I do and I don't do them in any kind of order. I just judge all my interactions differently. Like for example I'm not gonna go up to a girl at a book store and scream HIGH FIVE and then spin her.

    Another thing to note and some may agree. This is also based on your personality. What I mean by that is, If you are just all out not the type to be ballsy enough to spin a woman and then kiss her then you may have to work your way up to that level because you may just fark it up, but then again you can just run it and see what happens because you never know! lol. first time I did it I got a big wet one from an HB9 and suddenly I'm being kissed by random women.

    Another thing to keep in mind is that you also have to judge your moves by her interaction with you at times. What I mean by this is this. If she is just not touching you then don't go trying to grab her ass. Some girls will be so high on their energy level that they will be the ones to progress things faster then you are so be ready to pick up the speed so you can lead. What I mean by this is that if she grabs you and starts dancing on you grinding her ass on your crotch then don't try and be a gentleman and introduce yourself like HHH from way back in the day when he first got into the WWE.

    I guess the whole point is touch. Be social and don't be weird about it.

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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    Quote Originally Posted by BlameStevie View Post
    Very clever! Nice man. Gonna use these in the next few days.


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    Nice. And if she comes in to smell your perfume, playfully push her away and say that you'll start charging her if she continued smelling for 1 second more.

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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    My tip is to enliven the atmosphere with a fun conversation topic!
    To tickle the girl is absolutely the best way to find out how she would react.
    So if you notice that she is retiring, it will not hurt your friendship.
    If she be, for example, laughs and tickles the back, it's a positive sign!

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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    Now-a-days I just use big gestures and touch in all my conversations - even platonic ones and what not.

    With girls tho I've found the two biggest factors in touch are comfort and control: she has to be comfortable with the idea of you touching her (don't make it wierd dlv) and your touch also has to be Alpha (dhv) like lightly pushing the small of her back when she slows down while leading you to the bar or her friends, or touching the side of her shoulder as if to say "this chick!..." when referencing her.

    If you're still a little intimidated by the idea of touching a girl here's what I started out doing:

    Mind all of this material is pretty old

    Once we're in isolation:

    Me: "I was reading a Psychology book and I found this thing..." {Cube Routine} (5 - 10 minutes)

    Me: "...that's fun right. CHeck this out, here's a riddle, gimme your hand... {3 Coins Riddle - penny, nickle, dime, Ben} (2 minutes)
    She: laughs at being stumped

    Me: "Okay, okay, you must not be a banker, but you can redeem yourself, here's another one, gimme your hand..." {Am I touching you riddle} (3 minutes - take her hand, ask a series of about 10 easy yes/no questions, then point directly at her face with your finger about an inch from her nose and ask "am I touching you?" 95% of the time she'll say "no" then you shake her hand that you've been holding this whole time)

    Me: "Wow, you could go into serious debt if you played poker. Tell you what, let's make this interesting, lets make a bet..." {five lies game - if I'm getting a lot of ioi's and feeling ballsy I might bet a kiss, otherwise if I just want to play a bit more with hand/gestural kino I'll bet a drink or a meal and we'll go do that.

    But anyway, this is how I got over my KA (Kino Anxiety) just with these (and really any other "gimme your hand" routines

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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    Also, a stupid tip: touch everyone. Even guys, kids, people waiting at Starbucks, whatever, get used to making it a whole part of your talking, and it will come naturally when with a girl. Also, added advantage: since she will see you Kino with everyone, she won't feel it weird you are doing it with her too - which opens the way to escalation

    Also, love the techniques of Autismus, good stuff

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    Default Re: Touching Tips

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Also, a stupid tip: touch everyone. Even guys, kids, people waiting at Starbucks, whatever
    Maybe not kids. Don't touch kids...that's what got the Catholics in trouble.
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