I feel that the person I am (Black, masculine, BLACK ) makes it good for me to use the cocky/funny technique. But I haven't quite got it down yet, its my 3rd day on the forum and I'm trying to grasp all of this. Some questions i have about Cocky/Funny
1. Whats the difference between cocky/funny and arrogant/annoying? And is there a fine like between cocky/funny and arrogant/annoying?
2. How often should i use cocky/funny? Everytime she sets herself up for it, or sparringly just when i need to spice things up?
3. How can i use cocky/funny effectively in a convo? I seem to always do it somehow like this (real txt convo):
Girl: Is it weird for you to text me and my sister at the same time?
Me: Mm honestly not really. Is it weird texting me knowing your sister is too? Cuz if theres competition i can always just stop texting one of you
Girl: Lol no I dont care. She wants me to stop texting you. She HATES that I talk to you.
Note: Girl is two years older than I am, girls sister is my age.
Did I get a good reply out of the girl? What should I of said? I feel like i know how to use it but not to the right effectiveness. I see people using it in a sexual way or in a way that builds rapport or in a way that makes the girl open up more and moves the "relationship status" further down the line. Thanks to whichever PUA replies to this