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  1. #1
    Trance Guest

    Default Treat the guys with respect.

    One thing that annoys & puzzles me about the 'Pickup Artist' scene is that some PUAs explain how to overcome or undermine any boyfriend that might be in the way. It annoys me because it's being disrespectful to another human being & creates very bad karma. It also puzzles me why any 'successful' PUA or man, correction, WEAK man, would have to stoop to that level just to get a girl? If you profess to be so successful, why would you bother with trying to win over another man's girl? In my eyes, that's being a failure.

    Anyway, I was drinking in my local one evening with my girlfriend Carol, when this tall blonde with a beautiful smile suddenly walks up to me & tells me that she thought I had warm friendly eyes & said she would like to introduce herself to me. I looked at her then I looked at Carol then Carol looked at her, then I said, "That's fine, sit down." She was called Kate. We started chatting & I found her easy to get along with. Oh, a decent human being.

    She was engaged to a guy called Chris who she introduced me to that evening. He said a quick "Hi" though spent his time drinking with his friends. She told me she did modeling & had recently come second in a Miss Lincolnshire contest. She told me that she had met Chris as he was a photographer for the local newspaper & had been taking pictures at another contest.

    \pard Over the next few months I got to know Kate well. Carol & I parted around this time. Kate & I got along & enjoyed each others company so for several months her boyfriend would drive round to my place once each week to bring Kate to me then pick her up several hours later. I was respectful to her & Chris as he trusted me & was cool.

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    yeah thats cool. u seem to be very wise and very respectful, but at the same time you know what its like at that moment in time when nothing matters. a lot of guys who join the community join because of heartbreak or because they havent been good with girls and want to change that. just like with most guys, they want to just take "revenge" on the women that ignored them or take revenge out generally cause one women broke there heart.

    so while u say its messed up to try and steal anothers guys girl, you also seem wise enough to know there Mindset and that judgement shouldnt be passed. just as a kid on their 21st gets really drunk. noone is going to judge them because there in a point in their lives where mistakes are going to be made, and are pretty much expected to make mistakes. it is just natural for people to go thru stages of breakup or lonliness as they do the same steps of a grieving process.

    i welcome ur opinion cause u will give the PUA's here a devil advocate side of m0rality and ethics amongst our rages of wanting to have sex with tons of hot women.
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    There's also something to be said about a girl you really have feelings for and have known for a long time. In this case, I don't see doing what you can to take the woman you think you could have a shot at a real future with from some guy you don't know as crossing any moral boundaries at all.

    There's also the argument, not necessarily that I agree, that if the woman was willing to cheat then it wasn't much of a relationship anyways, and you may have been doing the guy a service.

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    I agree with you so much Trance. It is bad karma, absolutely. I was stealing a girl from her BF earlier not long ago, and I found myself just reeling back. There is a seemingly infinite amount of attractive single women out there that I would love to date, so I am not going to hurt another man. That said, I still practice my skill with girls I know have BF's often to see what works and to get used to talking with cute girls. I just don't do it in an overtly flirtatious manner, and I talk about their BF's respectfully and even extol them when I hear a cool story about them .

    While I fully believe in learning to AMOG to a degree, because you will get "attacked" by AMOG's, I think the Mindset Mystery and Tyler Durden have in treating other men with women is just awful. Often the guys you meet in "sets" are darn cool, no reason to try to "steal" their girls. If you're cool, they'll sometimes even push you and the cute single girl in the group together, haha.

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    I just want to learn AMOG tactics because I was the kid who always got bullied, and I still take a degree of shit today. Now, I am going to try Mystery's tactic of jsut agreeing and blowing everything otu of proportion if somebody tries to mess with me. I dont wanna steal a guys girl, I just wanna get guys to not fark with me

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    You have no confidence. I can see it in that post. Go back and look at your inner game. Dont worry bout AMOG lines that can just cover up the problem, learn to fix the problem.

    Confidence! its where its at

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    How can I work on my inner game?

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    Trance Guest

    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    If you want to work on your inner game, send me your email address & I'll send you my e-book. It's what I use with guys I coach & it works every time!

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    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    will do, did it

  10. #10
    Cota Guest

    Default Re: Treat the guys with respect.

    I think its pritty clear in the sense that there are an infinite number of single women so going around f-ing up healthy relations is incongruent with a man that can supposedly get any women, on the other hand if you think you can be a better boyfriend than the guy then you should play it on the long term and see what the girl wants


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