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  1. #1
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    Default Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    Hello everyone.This is my first post here.I've been reading for a while but the truth is it's just hard to apply everything.
    I've met this woman 2 days ago and she is amazing. I met her through a forum and we have so much in common,she is gorgeous,funny,witty and very interesting. We live 4 hour drive apart but if it does work I don't mind making the trip she is absolutely worth it.
    I've been talking to her a lot about life,about her,about me. I've helped her with some university stuff that I had experience with and everything is going great except I have feeling I'm dwelling into the friend zone.
    Please guys this is a call for help.
    Please tell me how I can turn this around.
    I know I sound like a pathetic AFC right now but I really am not I've never had issues with women but she,she is on a whole different league.
    Please give me any tip or advice on how to talk to her,how to let her know I'm interested, anything that could help me.

    Thank you.


    -A guy in love.

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    Flirt... flirt... flirt... tease... tease... flirt.

    Repeat.

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    Flirt... flirt... flirt... tease... tease... flirt.

    Repeat.
    how how how how how how?
    to do it properly

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    I could talk for HOURS on this - but for now I will let some of the other guys chime in (crob, tyler, raven, prjav, etc).

    Until then - read this:

    Free Report: The Top 10 Idiotic Mistakes That Are Keeping Hot Willing Women Out Of Your Bed

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    First things first ... u are obviously doting on this "woman of ur life", which is not bad. But it is written all over ur expressions ... and that is not good either. So flirt around with other girls. Study around materials here to learn how to flirt if u dont know how to. This will detach majority of ur feelings from this girl and help reposition u to think better on how to get her to dote on u back. Women won't appreciate ur love no matter how strong ... u have to find a way to spart her emotional plugs by seducing her, and that is when she will start understanding ur plight.
    When u're done flirting with other girls, start to have a mind of ur own around her. Stop pleasing her all the time. Make her work for ur approval. Trust me, u wont lose her if u hurt her. But dont overdo it. Hurt her and console her. This will create the Tension that will get her plugs sparking for you and only you.
    Act accordingly and u will keep her...

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.


    Awww puppy love. Lol

    Well Bill nailed it you need to flirt like crazy. There is a ton of theory behind why guys fall into the friends zone. But basically it boils down to this: You create to much comfort without creating anything sexual. As a result the woman stops seeing you as a sexual partner and starts seeing you as someone they can “relax” around and be a best friend with. Ok enough theory, I could go on about this for ever cause I love the theory behind this stuff… Lets look at how to make it happen!!

    Well if the theory of why guys get friends zoned is that they get to comfortable without any sexual escalation. So my opinion is this: start working in some sexual innuendo into your conversations. Great way to start this is simple “that’s what she said” jokes. This will most likely make her a bit uncomfortable at first but she will warm up to it. Uncomfortable is not necessarily a bad thing simply because she is feeling a new emotion that you are invoking in her. Learn some cocky funny lines. Be willing to disagree with her and know what you believe. There is tons of info on this site about things like the question game, and dhv’s. Take a look at them and try to take something away from them. Just beware when you turn on a womans sexual side its like releasing a beast!

    What it Boils down to is you need to Reframe the interaction as one where she sees you as a sexual partner and not a friend. Keep your chin up this can be done. Remember your three keys to attraction and use them.
    A few questions for you: Have you met this girl face to face yet or is it all over the phone and computer. And if you did meet her what happened?

  7. #7
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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    It seems like you have been acting like her friend from the very beginning. That's the problem. A lot of guys come across a beautiful woman, and they "play it safe," by being friendly (friend-like), and then are surprised when they fall into the friend zone. If you want them to be your lover, you need to be their lover. It's ok to be a friend AND a lover (in fact, it's kind of required if you hope for an LTR), but lover needs to be in the equation in a big way.

    You need to flirt and build sexual Tension. Flirting is basically the art of witty banter. To give you an example, I was flirting with a girl I'm dating last night. I told her we couldn't go paintballing because her height gives her a huge advantage (she's real short), and she said "are you calling me short?" Then I said "Not short, fun size (laughs)." And then she said something about her sister being shorter. So I said "It's ok, I like fun size!" So it seemed like I was mocking her, but it was funny, and I turned it into a compliment, and she really liked it.

    If you are bad at flirting, I recommend watching comedy movies, comedy videos on YouTube (RayWilliamJohnson is the man, just sayin'), and books on writing comedy or doing stand up comedy. But it's not all about being funny, you need to be romantic and sexual as well, so you mix that in.

    Eventually, you're going to have to take the risk. You're going to have to start flirting. You might get rejected, but at least you tried. Remember this: women are emotional creatures. Your goal is to inspire certain emotions in her, and arousal.

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    Pinai Guest

    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    "the only people who appreciate a doormat are people with dirty shoes"

    Not really what's happening with you but well, same principle. If you want to be seen as a romantic possibility then don't act like a teacher, counselor, life coach, friend, etc.

    Don't just get to know her and tell things about yourself. Generate attraction, spark, intrigue, Tension.

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    Dude, if you have so many things in common, then use that as material to flirt.

    "Hmm, we're both nocturnal creatures and we prefer dark chocolate. Are you just being unoriginal?" (neg)

    "Hmm, we're both nocturnal creatures and we prefer dark chocolate. I bet I know something else that we both have in common... something people will be shocked to know about us..." (tease)

    "Hmm, we're both nocturnal creatures and we prefer dark chocolate. You think we're soulmates?"

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    Default Re: Pleas help me not lose the woman of my life.

    you gotta do some banter, and start doing Kino with her already if you haven't,this is crucial start doing subtle things like tap on the arm etc , did you do any kino with her
    Maverick


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