Making a woman laugh is a sure way to gain her trust and make her attracted to you. I have brought more women home from playing the funny guy when flirting than any other strategy. Anyone can be funny.
Use these tips that have worked for me. I always try and remember: do whatever it takes to make her laugh and the rest is easy. Try these out:
1. Comment on other people in the room
Try to find groups of people in the room that look completely bored. If it is a group of girls, tell her: “What do you think that is all about? Which one just broke up with her boyfriend?” Or if it a group of guys, look at her and say: “Look at those poor guys, they are waiting for women to come to them! You want to do them the honor?” Joke around about these people who look like they are having no fun. This will get her to laugh a little and make her be thankful you are there so she isn’t one of the bored people.
2. Try and find people who look like celebrities…almost
Tell her that you swore you just saw one of the Kardashian sisters walking around, and then point to some random brunette. Of course the girl you are talking to will disagree and in laugh. She will then usually point out and explain the differences between them to you. Bring up a couple other celebrity names and point to people who are clearly are not the real deal, but have the same hair color or something. She will find this to be an enjoyable and funny game.
3. Comment on the music
Say something about the music they are playing. Say something like, “God, when are they going to play my song”? She will ask what song you wanted played. Say some random strange song that is either from the 90’s or some Britney Spears song. She will laugh at this for sure. When you use humor to attract women, try to be a little goofy about it.
4. Use alcohol to your advantage
Clearly, alcohol makes everything seem funnier. When you are at a bar and the night progresses with more and more drinks, everything will seem more amusing. Keep loose by having a couple, but do not get wasted and embarrass yourself. Flirting generally goes a little better when alcohol is involved as well.
5. Play a funny game with her
Try coming up with a game where you use your surroundings as the rules. For example, play a game like: “is she single or married” where you guess if the women around you are single or have men at home. Also try playing “does he have a chance”. This is where you look at other guys trying to pick up girls. She will love this one because attractive women are approached all the time. She will definitely laugh as she gives insight into her past of the many creepy guys who have tried to pick her up.
6. If at a quiet place, use it to your advantage
If you talking to a girl at a bookstore or coffee shop (or any other quiet location), make her laugh and slightly uncomfortable by raising your voice a couple times in a funny way. Or better yet, try and get her to do it. This is a great way for the both of you to laugh together as you lesson the quiet Tension.