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    Default The movie date

    So I'm going to this chicks place to watch a movie,I have made out with her before....any advice/ideas/negs fellas?

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    Default Re: The movie date

    Just have fun... don't over think things and have something to talk about (have some interesting stories, or games to play, maybe the questions game).

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    kk sounds good, what is the Question game??

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    Default Re: The movie date

    Hrm.... Have you seen my product The Vibe?

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    Default Re: The movie date

    come on will all know the question game. its just where you ask questions. and you use it to escalate. start off simple then move a little more and more until it starts sexual like "what is ur favorite spot to be kissed. i have a place i call the nook it right here" and ill point to the place where you neck meets your collar bone. by asking a little more sexual question and answering at the same time, you enable her to give her answer more comfortably cause she doesnt feel like she is going out on a limb. she will feel more comfortable when you answer first. trust me i have experiemented and it helps a lot
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    Three things is always good and the rating game are fun too. Rating game is good for escalation and Three things is good for rapport/comfort. But talk about the movie depending on what it was(make sure to talk about how certain things made you felt but be cf) and sit around afterwards just to bs. chill out relax and have fun. If you have questions on the games go ahead and tell me

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    Default Re: The movie date

    Why don't you do something out of the ordinary and setup a date that's more interesting than just watching movies?

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    Default Re: The movie date

    typoUse open ended questions! You will hit the proverbial goldmine.

    DO NOT SHOT GUN CLOSE ENDED QUESTIONS!

    Actually listen to what she says and read in between the lines. To do this with her (or anyone) if you really want to dig use these three tactics:

    Restatement: "Parrot what she said so she elaborates on what you restated."

    Girl: So this part of the movie reminds me when I was at this party at college and had a fun time.

    You: What do you mean by a "fun time?"

    Girl: Blah Blah Blah

    Paraphrase: Clarify in your own words what you think she meant. Don't worry you don't have to get it right, you can always restate or do another paraphrase followed by an open ended question.

    Girl: So this part of the movie reminds me when I was at this party at college and had a fun time.

    You: So you are telling me you got lucky that night? (Insert a possible neg)

    Girl: Lol, no I just had a good time with my friends and got drunk. I think I blacked out but I KNOW I didn't sleep with anybody.

    (She is qualifying herself to you by explaining her flaw(s).

    You: Well you probably didn't remember much but it sounds like a fun time, (I guess) You can either continue: Tell me more about that? Or just cut the thread.

    Reflection: If used properly this WILL build attraction or comfort depending on what stage you are in. Reflections build empathy, understanding, and respect. Very different from sympathy. Reflections will put your relationship on a deeper level but use these sparingly and make sure your hunch is right or you might lose some ground.

    Girl: Omg, I am having a bad hair day and have to go to this job interview and then have to study for a mid term. No one understands what I am going though!

    You displaying Sympathy: (Wrong Approach) OMG, I feel so sorry for you, I have a test due too! Do you want a back rub?

    You displaying Empathy: (Proper Reflection) It sounds like you are having a pretty stressful day that you want to end ASAP. Lets get a drink when you are free. (Time-Bridge)

    Girl: OMG YES, you understand! No one usually does. I really need to go out for a drink soon. Good idea!

    You: Insert creativity here
    Last edited by Grifter; 03-07-2011 at 03:52 AM. Reason: typo

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    Default Re: The movie date

    Great post


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