so i've been putting a lot of the stuff i've read here to use and there's a huge improvement already, so thanks to everybody thats helped, especially crob who i've messaged a bunch. but enough namedropping. two things.
1. i can open well enough to allow me to dhv and build some comfort. i've gotten a lot better at kinoing and body language. the part i get stuck at is the conversation and turning it in a sexual direction. like i know a popular way to go is the questions game, but are there any other things to do and if so, how do you turn the convo in that direction?
2. i'm in college and am often at big parties with lots of stuff going on. i'll meet a girl and after a talking for a little her friends will come up and distract her (and it's not like they are saving her and i'm just ruining the convo, sometimes it's been going great) or she'll run in to something that will draw her from me. whats the best way to respond without coming off like an AFC? try to get some contact info or just play it cool and let her go and maybe run in to her again later?