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    jg1
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    Default sexual escalation help?

    so i've been putting a lot of the stuff i've read here to use and there's a huge improvement already, so thanks to everybody thats helped, especially crob who i've messaged a bunch. but enough namedropping. two things.
    1. i can open well enough to allow me to dhv and build some comfort. i've gotten a lot better at kinoing and body language. the part i get stuck at is the conversation and turning it in a sexual direction. like i know a popular way to go is the questions game, but are there any other things to do and if so, how do you turn the convo in that direction?
    2. i'm in college and am often at big parties with lots of stuff going on. i'll meet a girl and after a talking for a little her friends will come up and distract her (and it's not like they are saving her and i'm just ruining the convo, sometimes it's been going great) or she'll run in to something that will draw her from me. whats the best way to respond without coming off like an AFC? try to get some contact info or just play it cool and let her go and maybe run in to her again later?

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    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: sexual escalation help?

    Hmmm... I think you're managing to be engaging but you're not getting them attracted, otherwise they won't be so easy to peel away from you.

    When you talk, do you flirt and get sexual?

    "that giggle is turning me on, do that again and I might just kiss you"
    (what? *giggle*),
    "so you do want a kiss"
    (kiss in the forehead)
    "maybe i'll just think of you as my granny"
    (if you've established rapport, she will giggle again or fake disgust/anger... so you lean closer)
    "maybe if i kiss you somewhere else, I won't think that"

    Used this once or twice and it worked, but I'm not sure if this is really decent. But the point is, you have to inject some sexual Tension while building comfort and getting to know the girl.

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    jg1
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    Default Re: sexual escalation help?

    thanks for the example. when i try to make the conversation sexual, am i inviting/proposing the idea of us hooking up further? is it simply complementing them or pulling in a way that is obviously sexual? even a made up dialogue would help, i just need to see some examples to get the concept better.

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    Coyote Guest

    Default Re: sexual escalation help?

    before doing anything.... make sure you are noticing her signals, body language, etc...

    do you feel that you are going to get in?

    then measure which way you play it accordingly. maybe even write out a few possible scenarios that you could find your self in. they may never eventuate that way and that is ok. you are covering bases and your confidence to deal with a range of possibilities will be strengthened.

    you will start noticing patterns too


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