so question...after you already have a set on the dance floor. and of course nothing really happens there so you want to take them to the bar or outside where you can talk. whats the best way to make sure they are attracted enough to go with you? usually i whisper some funny lines like "you know normally i make girls buy dinner before i let them dance with me like this" or "your dancing is pretty good...but theres some room for impovement" or something along these lines. but its so hit or miss with this it seems. often they will refuse to go to the bar after my attempt to build attraction. any thing you guys do that works?