Re: Anybody got help for dancing...
First, go to places where you like the music. It's very hard to dance to stuff you don't feel.
Second, dance in front of the mirror. Or camcord yourself dancing. Make it as ridiculous as possible (for example in your underwear) get a look at yourself and modify whatever you feel you like.
Third, get comfortable with your own videos. You should keep modifying what you don't like till you can see yourself in the mirror or a video and be ok with it. Take a mental picture
Fourth, go to the club and let it fly. Transmit the fun you are having (which should be the equivalent fun to dancing around in your underwear, which is super fun) to the chick you are dancing with. She will feel this vibe. She will be into it.
Also, use the opener "I bet you I can make you have more fun than anybody else in this club within 30 seconds"
Tell her to imitate you and dance.
Don't be afraid to have fun. As long as it is genuine you will not be a clown. After 10 seconds of having her laugh and follow you, grab her hand, give her a little spin. Then take her cues, play your cards right, you'll get a kiss by the second or third song.
Once you master that, start looking into dancing that relates to the music you like. Only once you've mastered your body can you start acquiring new moves.
Remember my name lady, you'll be screaming it later.