Guys, I have been struggling with an issue for the past few years, and I really need some opinions and advice on this.
This is my 3rd year in college. I attended one university for a year, and then xfer to another for a year, and finally came back to the first one. Due to some personal issues, I hardly made any friends in the past 2 years. I was shy, addicted to video games, social idiot, had depression, just all kinds of problems. Now this year, I decided to make big changes to my life and commit to success. So far, I ve been making progress. I feel more comfortable talking to ppl, women esp.
Long story short, the situation is, I am a junior in college, with no friends on campus, and I want to befriends with alot of ppl, esp women. Problems are:, no social circle, junior year in college (hard to make friends?).
I have no problem meeting / approaching, but I need to work on my talking / flirting. The biggest concern I have right now is this: I meet a girl, got to know her, and she sees that I have no friends and no social circle, and I am afraid that all my efforts are in vain.
I live in the Midwest btw, ppl here are bit closed minded compared with elsewhere.
so how do I solve these problems / concerns quickly?