Hey guys, First time poster but have been practicing pick up artistry for a couple years now after reading the game by Neil Strauss (I suspect this is true for the majority of PUAs).
Anyways, Im needing some advice approaching a bartender at a local bar, although I have no anxiety in approaching her she is a legitimate 9-9.5 so I'm really trying to think of the best approach to take on this one and thought I'd ask your guys opinions.
The Bar isn't really loud but can get quite busy, its the sort of place people head to drink before hitting clubs. Ill be heading there with 3 or 4 other guys, all pretty good wing men.
I was thinking either one of the following three approaches would be best:
1. Treat it like day game as she wont be drinking and is in her work environment, Id have to order a few glasses of water so as to not seem like a drunken yob. using Cajun's method of saying "Listen I think you're really cute and id kick myself if I didn't introduce myself" (then introduction) throw in a time constraint and ask for number then leave the bar.
Obviously Id have to be at the bar for sometime before I give the time constraint and leave, so as not to look stupid and id have to avoid talking to her until leaving. The only problem is she might get this a fair bit from other guys.
2. Visit the bar over 3-4 week period and establish some sort of regular status before asking to see her outside of her working hours, throwing in some DHVs and maybe showing her a handshake to remember the next time we meet etc.
3. Treat it like any other set and locking in at the bar and opening with an opinion opener and taking it from there.
Wow this turned out to be quite long, if anyone can offer their opinions it would help a lot. Ill be heading to the bar this saturday so will post up a field report on Sunday.
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