Hey guys, not sure where to post this, its more an opinion thread.
My question is: what do you think of girls that are ok with grinding random men they don't know?
I certainly have fun with girls like this from time to time, but what do you think it says about a girl who just lets some random rub his wood on her rear? I'm just trying to figure out if I would ever want to date a girl like that. I'd hook up with them sure, and i have many a time, but I don't know if I would want anything to do with a girl like that outside a club.
I want your thoughts about what you think it says about a girl's self-esteem, how she views herself, how she rationalizes what she's doing. Reason I ask is because all my single girl friends are so completely against letting some random come up to them like that, so I'm curious what goes through a girl's mind who is cool with it. And i'm not talking about girls who take the guy home, because then its obvious what is going on in her mind. Just the type that grinds for a few songs, and likely gives you her number and adds you on facebook. But you're nothing special and she will do this to 2-3 guys per night every time she goes out. These girls also never follow up with any of the guys they meet and the guys just become another random fb friend that they never talk to, so they definitely aren't doing it to find relationships. Finally, these girls usually go out in sets of 2-5 and claim they only go clubbing to dance with their friends and are not looking to get hit on.
Look forward to hearing your opinions and helping me figure these girls out.