Thanks this post helped, I know when I felt I had nothing to lose I didnít have aa. Like I pretended my marriage wasnít on the rocks and I had nothing to lose because I wasnít trying to get anything or impress any girls. Then I felt like I could talk to anyone and I once talked to every girl in the bar and actually left mid sentence with the hottest girl in the bar because she was boring. This girl actually tracked me down and tried to talk to me later, but I was too drunk by then and was being a dick, I completely blew her off. This is totally not like me at all so I think that technique really helped me out.