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    dabruh Guest

    Default How to Destroy Approach Anxiety

    Hey,

    So guys aa has been a HUGE block/sticking point for me. Now I am happy to say, I can approach any woman, anytime & anywhere I DECIDE too.

    During the years that I was at Ďwar with ití I literally read EVERY book on the subject or related, watched every product and listen to a tonne of audios, now for me some worked an some didnít but none of it worked completely. So I have refined and tested and come up with a way to annihilate AA in as soon as 1 day however that is depending on YOU, if youíre willing to put the time and effort.

    Anyways lets get to it!

    Iím going to give you the basics and then I will wrap it all together into a system.

    First off let me say that AA is Ďhardwiredí so it MIGHT not be totally gone, I donít know Iíll leave that up to YOU. Another thing Ė it is an unconscious pattern so consciously trying to fight it/block it/restrict/constrict will only make it stronger, so accept it and let it flow through you Ė that is the first step!

    Humans are habitual creatures so that means we are CONTROLLED by our habits! It takes 21-30 days to build a habit or 21-30 times of doing something. So the obvious reason why you could not be able to approach is because you are conditioned to NOT.

    Next it feels like a FEAR response, right? Iíve learnt that the best way to face fear is to be motivated by a stronger fear. What about fear of loss? What do you have that is most precious to you? (Money £1000, material/tangible) you might also need a partner for this part.

    So wrap this together Ė get a piece of paper (you gotta write it down- IMPORTANT!) pick a day that you will do this approach 30+ women. Accept the AA (thank it and say goodbye) get your £1000 (or whatever will be painful enough) and give it to your partner and tell them if you do not complete your mission 100% he gets to keep it.

    I would recommend to do the approaches alone although its up to you, the 1st approach will be the hardest just keep the momentum, what we are doing is building the approach women Iím attracted to reflex.

    and you dont have to do this for 30 days unless you really want to super stick it firmly although it will work if you DO IT 21-30 times - so that would be the approach number.

    So there you go, the only way to USE THIS is to actually want too, this is no magic pill but it definitely will do the magic.

    you can also add this technique to it:




    Let me know what you think!

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    Default Re: How to Destroy Approach Anxiety

    I love the Technique, Props on that and I hope this worked for you and the others that needed it.

    Also try this out, competition. Thats right with just that you will end up working wonders and yet not having to risk to loose that amount of money or w.e it is that means alot to you. Try this out and let me know how it goes for you.

    Best of wishs,

    *~Geo~*

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    Awesome, man. Props on that, it looks really helpful.

    Today, I tried to cold approach girls in the street - I don't know if you know Svengali's challenge, basically it's saying "hi" to every woman you see at a mall, for instance. I failed, and I saw every woman passing by, I was paralyzed! But I tried not to worry about it. Reading things like this help me a lot to learn to relax and to enhance my inner game.

    I actually suffered from social anxiety desorder (SAD) for about 3 years and I'm fighting it. I used to hyperventilate and feel paranoid about people in college, and I was unable to talk to them. A lot has changed so far, I have friends and I'm starting to throw parties and go out. This is another challenge in my life, but I know I'll go through.

    Peace out,

    - Tango

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    #1. You have not at all gotten rid of your Approach Anxiety. All you did was finally psych yourself into realizing that approaching a woman is not as bad as you think it is. Why can I say that so confidently? When you meet the "woman of your dreams" guess who's gonna come back. Yup, you guessed it!

    #2. Approach anxiety is NOT a bad thing. Stop talking about it like it's some kind of illness or sickness or condition. You only give it power that way just so you can be like "Oh man, I got aa. I can't do this" Ughhhhh. No no no.

    Approach anxiety is just your body signaling to you that you are about to do something you don't normally do. When you do something you don't normally do, guess what? You guessed it! You get nervous.
    "Approach Anxiety" is the cause for my greatest moments in meeting women. Why? Because I thought differently about it. Instead of letting it stop me (because Approach Anxiety doesn't stop you from approaching women. YOU DO), I use it to my advantage and just be myself. By being myself I mean I talk to her sincerely (meaning I do not hold back anything!). Meaning the inner critic that constantly tells me "talk like this, or do that, or I cant believe you did your face like that, now she'll never like me", I turn that off. It's after approaching and realizing how fun it is that you stop getting nervous, until you see that woman who turns you upside down (because we are naturally wired to do that). It is by you GOING AFTER WHAT YOU WANT that makes you MASCULINE! So don't be a wuss!

    But yea, those techniques you offered were really good. I just wanted to emphasize that it is impossible to get rid of approach anxiety because it is apart of you and rightfully should be.

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    I really like the twist about aa not being a bad thing, seeing it that way puts things in another perspective.

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    Default Re: How to Destroy Approach Anxiety

    *shadow boxing in the corner* I can do this. I can do this.

    lol jk (sort of)

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    LOL Morris, I've been there too...

    "What are you? A man or a mouse?!" *silence, starting to worry about a tail and white fur popping up*

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    Default Re: How to Destroy Approach Anxiety

    My sticking point with day game is people are usually around. I hear solo is weirder. But, I haven't made that connection yet. I've tried it a few times with some successes.

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    Default Re: How to Destroy Approach Anxiety

    Baby steps and also when you approach make sure it is genuine. if you go indirect you will always have Approach Anxiety

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    Default Re: How to Destroy Approach Anxiety

    Off top tho Bruhbruh this is good material. much thnx
    And also thnx to Kingy for reminding me to be sure its genuine(usually when its not i know what will happen next)
    And also to Ifeanyiboy for lettin me know aa is not a bad thing
    (that helps me stay in perspective)
    Im gonna get at that Svengali's challenge to apply what ive learned.


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