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    Achilles88 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How long to wait after number close?

    Yep just like the title says...

    Should I txt first or call and how long should I wait?

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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    Easy. TXT immediately when you get the number, while she's standing there. TXT again a few minutes after you part ways (from another part of the venue, or outside, or wherever).

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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    If you aranged a date for later, just text her a few hours later, if you didn't call her the next day.

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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    text immediately to confirm her number.

    then text her at night to flirt a bit. Wait a day later, and text her n ask her out.

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    Quote Originally Posted by Shepherd1989 View Post
    text immediately to confirm her number.

    then text her at night to flirt a bit. Wait a day later, and text her n ask her out.
    is there an echo in here? :-)

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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post
    is there an echo in here? :-)
    huh? I don't get it.

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    you said exactly the same thing I did over a week ago.

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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    lol, I swear I did not look at your post, but good stuff man.

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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    Girl here. Personally, I dislike it if the guy (1) texts and/or (2) texts to confirm that he got the right number.

    (1) is a personal preference.
    (2) why in the world would you need to confirm?! It would just seem like you do not come across as confident. Even if you don't say that out right in your text, IMHO, contacting the girl within hours of getting her number comes off as plain desperate.

    Yes, some girls *may* give you the wrong number. So what? Even if she does give you the right number doesn't necessarily mean that she's in fact interested. And presumably you don't know much about her, so stop being so afraid. She's human, just like you.

    Call me old-fashioned, but I prefer a guy calls. It shows that he's mature and different from the of the rest of the guys. I give more credit to a guy that calls than texts.

    I would also caution against contacting a girl too quickly. One of my biggest turn-offs is that I give a guy my number and he texts (yuck) and he texts immediately...and my mind goes "great...another one just like the others."

    Bottom Line: Wait at least 24 hours, but no more than 48-36. Pick up the phone and call.

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How long to wait after number close?

    Hi Tough, I have to be frank with you. You're using the exact WOMAN logic that our advice here is designed to circumvent. And by women logic, I mean expressing your feelings/opinions about what YOU like, and not what works. You don't have to like it. It's just what has to be done.

    It's not about validating whether the number is correct. It's about maintaining rapport.

    If you have a connection, it is strongest right then when you're talking to her and within a few hours afterwards. Contacting right away A) gives you the opportunity to continue the light-hearted mood from your conversation, B) suggests you don't play games, C) subconsciously suggests you're different from other guys and you get right to business, and yes D) allows you to sh!t test her sh!t tests by validating the phone number right there.

    Yes. Old fashioned. As in, how it works for you, and how it worked back in 1996. Contact, THEN wait. Once you've opened the lines of communication, they're more likely to respond when you start talking on them again.

    Of course, whether it comes off as desperate depends on what you say, and the strength of the connection you had. The truth is if the girl ISN'T into you when she gives you her phone number, you're never going to get her to respond to your texts or answer the phone a day later anyway. But maintaining the rapport immediately gives you the opportunity to show her there might have been more to you than she could discern when she first met you.
    Last edited by JonTylerDiPrince; 03-13-2011 at 11:04 PM.


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