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    Default What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    1. got her #, texted her, but never texted back.
    2. asked her out in person, but got rejected.
    3. texted for a bit, then disappeared.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    Show higher value. Talk to her but indicate no interest sexually and be fun and confident.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    I move her to the friends' zone.

    I talk to her, like I would any of my friends. I make fun of her for rejecting me. After all, she was always just one of many prospects.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    Persistence is key, here. Foxy, ping her with something funny and random from time to time. Convey that you are not affected by her actions ( or lack of actions ). She's bound to give in to your messages at some point.

    This also depends where you met her, how did you run game on her, what kind of rapport you two had.

    From what it looks like, you didn't run very tight game to begin with. But you can recover.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    not just one girl... multiple,

    I got so irritated today, and deleted all their #s.

    update: I saw one of the girls sitting in the library, I was walking out of it, and she made eye contact with and smiled a lil. ummm, all I gotta say is wtf?

    I got her # yesterday, texted back and forth 5-6 times 5 hours after meeting her. I asked her out to lunch at two specific times, she said she had work or class, which I do believe is true. Then I teased her a bit, and said "ok princess, when are u free"? she never replied back, I then texted her two hours later for the last time saying "I am free in the morning from 8-10, lets grab coffee" still no text.

    girls are weird, and I am done approaching and getting #s, but nothing comes out.
    Last edited by Shepherd1989; 03-09-2011 at 08:44 PM.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    You're trying too hard.

    At first, it is best to be unaffected.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    and by trying too hard, Nik means you're trying too much. You're over-invested. Send fewer texts.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    I usually don't do this, but this girl was HB 15, ridiculously fine, and spring break starts this Friday, so I really wanted to squeeze one in before break. But yes, I did went overboard.

    I just ignore her from now on.

    and this one other girl.... she sat outside where I worked for couple days, then I noticed and talked to her. She then tells me how she thinks I am cute and been trying to get me to notice her by sitting outside, I am like perfect, gimme ur digits, and then here is where the fked up part, she tells me she is not ready to date, and has baby daddy issues. I tried to convince her to bypass all that, and give me some form of contact info, she continues to bullsh1t and not giving any, instead she tries to ask for my facebook and number, of course, I didn tell her, and told her I am not gonna be here forever and left.

    but, srsly wtf? why the hell would u try to get a guy to notice and talk to u, but won't give him any sort of contact info? I think she is being manipulating or just playing mind games and tests, but anyway, I am done with her bs too.
    Last edited by Shepherd1989; 03-10-2011 at 12:45 PM.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    Yes, HB10+ makes your other parts take over. I did just recently with a really cute 21-year old, and it's been hardcore seduction and unavailability just to reign her back in.

    Don't ignore the girl. Just ease off a lot. No need to be a jerk, my friend! We're all here to be better men, just also more effective with the ladies. Maybe you were a little too aggressive and she changed her mind? For the record, chicks with kids are scrambled. You have to show you're going to be "around" if you want to keep their attention.

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    Default Re: What do you do when you walk by the girl who....

    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post
    Yes, HB10+ makes your other parts take over. I did just recently with a really cute 21-year old, and it's been hardcore seduction and unavailability just to reign her back in.

    Don't ignore the girl. Just ease off a lot. No need to be a jerk, my friend! We're all here to be better men, just also more effective with the ladies. Maybe you were a little too aggressive and she changed her mind? For the record, chicks with kids are scrambled. You have to show you're going to be "around" if you want to keep their attention.
    well, I deleted her # n msgs, so it's either she texts me back, or no contact. I might see her again on campus, but will just probably make eye contact, then move on or something.

    and the girl with the kid, I ll just leave her alone, too much baggage, drama, and bullsh1t.


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