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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Quote Originally Posted by SummaFelix View Post
    You question is a little vague.

    Are you talking about (1) the same girl, or (2) in general?

    If you're talking about the same girl, then (1) is the max. After all, what kind of an example would you be setting if you would approach again after being shot down once? ("it's okay for me to shoot him down, because he'll just come running right back; I haven't lost anything") vs. ("I better not wrongfully shoot this guy down, because once he's gone, he's never coming back").

    If you're talking about in general, my rule is one girl per place. If a guy is on the bus, and he hits on one girl on that bus, it's okay. It's okay, because no matter what happens, the world is on his side. Everyone around him knows (both men and women) just how hard it is to start talking to a complete stranger you're interested in. So it doesn't matter if he succeeds or fails; to the rest of the world around him, the guy is a success; the failure is the guy who stays quiet and doesn't do anything.

    However, as soon as that same guy hits on a second girl in the same bus, the world's sympathy turns to laughter, spite, and disgust. Now, this guy turns into this desperate dog, begging for attention and a piece of meat.

    So, just limit it to one time per place.
    I'm sorry, but this is some rather unfounded advice. There's never a limit to the number of people who you can talk to or the number of times you can approach one girl. If you've got the skills to recover from a blow out, why would you not try? If you don't have recovery skills, then, why would you not try?

    If you're in a busy venue, and you're doing it right, every approach is under the radar, and there is no limit because you fuqcking OWN THE WORLD.

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    So then no to the number but I'll see you around is a possible shot? lol

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post
    Bill, ban/delete this clown. All his posts are non-sensical gibberish. Appears to be spam.
    Maybe he's gibberish and non-sensical because English is not his 1st language? If anything, the user johnmike should be banned, because he only writes "great stuff" in like every thread. ( well, ok, 10 threads )

    Give this guy a break.

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    Maybe he's gibberish and non-sensical because English is not his 1st language? If anything, the user johnmike should be banned, because he only writes "great stuff" in like every thread. ( well, ok, 10 threads )

    Give this guy a break.
    johnmike and others have already been banned, they just still appear in threads. English is rarely the first language of the spam teams in foreign and 3rd-world countries (China, eastern-block european). I've read every one of the threads he's replied to, and the input makes no semantic sense in the context of the thread. They are clearly spam, the kind that is auto-generated from the text already in the thread. I've seen worse english make more sense.

    From a product management / content management perspective, if the contributions do not add value to the forums, then they are not in the best interest of the stakeholders.

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Don't focus too much on them. Get back to topic. I was starting to take notes. lol

    I've heard stories from women about how their men asked them several times-one for months. That seems like too much trouble. Even if they are married, it can't be that great of a relationship since it seems she has the upperhand (no dhv).

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post
    No rule. Approach them all if you want, but slow down if you feel like approaching the same number of women every night isn't getting you anywhere (i.e. you're on a plateau).

    You're likely missing a valuable learning step somewhere earlier in your process. If you're stuck, don't focus so much on having a desirable "attraction/sexual" outcome, and just focus on having fun and meeting new people. In other words, go into your interactions specifically with the purpose of just meeting people.

    I think this ought to make the experience more rewarding and comfortable for you, after which you'll be able to find how to integrate a little more technique into your unique personality... and transcend the plateau.
    I agree wholeheartedly. Focus on being in the moment. Which is hard for some people especially people like me who are stuck in their heads regardless if they are nervous or not.

    If you are asking this question however then you probably don't know what you are looking for. Don't worry too much about that as many people don't either (even if they think they do). You can approach a female, but you'll keep asking yourself "what do I do next" if you don't have a plan. You can't have a plan, if you don't know what you want.

    Now by plan I don't mean step 1, then step 2. I mean if I'm at a bar and I see a lot of females, I'm going to approach her because:
    A. She's hot and I want to grace her life with my penis.
    B. I think she's might be a cool person so I'll choose to get to know her.

    Always ask yourself before you talk to a woman, how can she fit into my life? Do I want to get to know her? Do I want to approach her just to practice and find out new things? Do I just want to get my d1ck wet?

    If you know what it is you want then it will translate through your body language and she will be able to tell. The rest then just depends on how sincere you are with your intentions and how much of yourself you project. Learn from whatever mistakes you make and most importantly, DONT BE AFRAID TO TELL THESE CHICKS WHAT IT IS!! aka if you got something on your mind, say it. No matter how dumb it might sound later. Trust yourself and you'll see results. Hope that helps my man...

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Quote Originally Posted by jdeman View Post
    very interesting, hehe
    oops. double post. love internet

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    Default Re: how many approaches before looking desperate

    Quote Originally Posted by ifeanyiboy View Post
    I agree wholeheartedly. Focus on being in the moment. Which is hard for some people especially people like me who are stuck in their heads regardless if they are nervous or not.

    If you are asking this question however then you probably don't know what you are looking for. Don't worry too much about that as many people don't either (even if they think they do). You can approach a female, but you'll keep asking yourself "what do I do next" if you don't have a plan. You can't have a plan, if you don't know what you want.

    Now by plan I don't mean step 1, then step 2. I mean if I'm at a bar and I see a lot of females, I'm going to approach her because:
    A. She's hot and I want to grace her life with my penis.
    B. I think she's might be a cool person so I'll choose to get to know her.

    Always ask yourself before you talk to a woman, how can she fit into my life? Do I want to get to know her? Do I want to approach her just to practice and find out new things? Do I just want to get my d1ck wet?

    If you know what it is you want then it will translate through your body language and she will be able to tell. The rest then just depends on how sincere you are with your intentions and how much of yourself you project. Learn from whatever mistakes you make and most importantly, DONT BE AFRAID TO TELL THESE CHICKS WHAT IT IS!! aka if you got something on your mind, say it. No matter how dumb it might sound later. Trust yourself and you'll see results. Hope that helps my man...
    The times I make it happen is when I'm "feeling it". Whether that's hornyness or not, it's an active reason. lol


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