I'm new here. First a little introduction.
I'm 22 years old and I live in Oslo, Norway. I read "The Game" three years ago, until then I had no confidence at all. I even got nervous talking to girls about school stuff in class. I learned the basics, some routines and grew more confident. I went to forums and really imroved! I don't consider myself a PUA at all, but feel that I've taken one or two steps from beeing the complete AFC i used to be
Eventually I got to the point where I ended up K-closing almost every time I was out. But my main problem is; I rarely get past making out (and by really i mean REALLY). When I make out with a girl, I feel like I've ran out of thing to say to her
Any good advice?
I could also use some help on this other issue...
I met a girl this summer, she was a bartender the place me and some friends traveled (Greece), from the same place as I (Oslo, Norway). I found her on facebook and after chatting with her for some time back in Norway we exchanged numbers. At this time she was texting and "facebook"ing me all the time, wanting to hang out. The first time we hang out was at a bar, me, her and a friend of her had some drinks and talked for 2-3 hours, had a great time (not being dunk or anything ). She continued texting me, wanting to hang out more, and I got her to come over to my place and watch a movie. We watched a movie and ended up kissing. The next 3-4 times we agreed to meet she texted me the day before and told me she had other things she just HAD TO DO. Grandmother in hospital, family dinner, etc., etc. She eventually texted me; "Call me!". I called her and she told me how sorry she was for ditching me, that she wanted sooo much to hang out and that she enjoyed soooo much being with me. I probably did a huge mistake by telling her "Don't be sorry" etc... She laster invited me to her place for another movie-night, telling me; "Thursday night my roommate is out. Do you want to come over and watch a movie with me?" I was like . I went to her place that thursday. She was at her computer when I came over, she put on a movie and told me that she just had to finish her facebook conversation with her friend, like 5 mins. I thought OK and just chilled out. Her facebook conversation never ended and I ended up sitting there like a complete IDIOT, watching a boring movie while she was at her computer, almost like she didn't want me there!
WTF did I do wrong?!