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Thread: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

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    Default i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    The title of this thread should have been "I'm sure this was an ioi... how should I have responded?"

    This girl I work with is an HB6.

    She had just thoroughly cleaned the dish sinks, and put fresh water in them.

    More dishes were soon created and I went to do them:

    Her: "You better not get my fresh dishwater dirty!"

    Me: "Oh yea? or you'll do what?"

    Her: *pauses to think about it for a few seconds*
    "...or I might have to kiss you"

    My first impulse was to walk over and say "You might have to anyway" and kiss her.

    But I fought that impulse for several reasons: 1) She's not 18 quite yet... but very soon 2) I was at work, I didn't want to risk my job 3) she either is still in, or just got out of a relationship, and I was getting the impression they had been together for a while.

    Me: *not expecting that at all, and taking a solid ten seconds to fight off above impulse, and come up with a response*
    "Haha I better not do that then."

    LAME. I meant to emphasize the word "that" more to be more playfully joking, but I was taken a little aback and I'm not sure it came across that way.

    I've grown accustomed to not having women flirt with me. But lately I've been taking the advice in alot of the thing's I've been reading and trying to reframe my conversations in a way that allows me to be the dominant one. I've grown not to expect women to flirt with me like that... I was actually kinda shocked...

    I think it's also because I'm putting alot more effort into appearing happy and trying to be more sociable in general than I have been.

    It elicited no response, but she has been generally more smiley with me lately (even after the comment that day).

    What would have been the best way to respond to this situation?

    Also more of a generic forum question: I just found out in another post that this forum is run by a guy named Bill who sells a product.

    Is this more of a support forum for those products?

    Am I encouraged to still post here, not having invested in Bill's product yet?

    If that's the case could anyone PM me if there's a more appropriate place that is product neutral to go to for the type of thing I'm seeking council on here?
    Last edited by SeekingSatisfaction; 03-13-2011 at 09:29 PM.

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    should have done it IMO. girls love a spontaneous kiss and she set you up for that one. Now she will think you are too chicken to do anything. [[window closed]]

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    Kissing a 17 year-old girl isn't exactly illegal. But if you're worried about it... then flirt with her until she's of age.

    Quote Originally Posted by SuWoo View Post
    ...girls love a spontaneous kiss...[[window closed]]
    Girls love a spontaneous kiss, if you're in a relationship with them. Not just randomly. Don't make generalizations like that. She did set him up... for flirting. And he didn't flirt back. He just put the kibosh on it by suggesting it would be inappropriate. The appropriate response would have been:

    "Well it *IS* dish water. [raise eyebrow, wink]. You obviously WANT to kiss me." And then put dirty dishes in the water while making direct eye contact, 'testing' whether she takes action.

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    Doh.

    I should have just done it.

    *kicks self*

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    Quote Originally Posted by SeekingSatisfaction View Post
    Doh.

    I should have just done it.

    *kicks self*
    and thats how life teaches us things...

    i bet next time you wont wussy out.

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    damn straight!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SeekingSatisfaction View Post
    damn straight!
    its okay we all mess up sometimes, i had this Hot Babe all over me but i was too dumb to realize and thought she was just flrity with a lot of guys and i showed some signs of weak ness now im screwed, she has lost interest cuz i wasnt persistent enough and wasnt alpha all the time but hey i got good news her friends is a gorgeous babe that looks like a freak and a straight b1tch (my type of girl) imma get at that wish me luck.

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    BTW best of luck to you

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    Good luck to you too man! Get at me if you ever want someone to bounce ideas off of. merockstar on yahoo or foolinnobody1968 on aim.

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    Default Re: i think this was an IOI... how should I have responded?

    Okay... I put some thought into this, and formulated a recovery plan.

    Let me know what you guys think.

    The next time I see her I'm going to walk up to her and say this, "Hey, do you remember the other day when you said you might have to kiss me if I dirtied your dishwater?"

    *wait response*

    "Well, what I actually meant to do was walk up to you and say, 'Well now you MIGHT have to!'"

    *proceeds to go for previously missed kiss-close*


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