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    Default Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    I have been getting the "I dont have much or any time these days", in response to asking a girl to come and do one of their hobbies with me. I usually throw the David D "Well then you should quit your job, drop out of school, and come hang out with me since I am more interesting anyways". The problem is these girls are in graduate level classes and are truly busy. What can I do to still hang out with them?


    -10 looks, 10 personality- In grad school and said she doesnt have much time

    -10 looks, 10 personality- Said she allready had plans and didnt want to blow them off

    I also found that C&F doesnt work on the nerdy nice chicks. What is a tonned down approach to them when they are truly busy?

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    Default Re: Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    Hey bro, i would just accomodate to a far later date.

    For example in like next week, or 2 weeks, keep in mind the communication in between that time frame needs to be open. If she is truly busy, she will agree.

    Most people don't know what they are doing the following week, on 2 weeks, but in the mean time, you are letting her know, you don't mind, cause you are busy as well, and you can hang out with other women in the mean time.
    If she text/call you can make sure you bring up the fact that you are going to have fun with someone else, and that she might lose her chance with you.

    It all depends on the situation though. I would set a date in the near future, keep talking to her in the mean time to create rapport, and go and meet other women, in the mean time, there is a big mine out there.

    Have fun.

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    Default Re: Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    I need some helpful advice guys, This girl was really attracted to me before but I took her for granted, I did not show interest in her, until I realized her attraction for me fizzled out, I want to get her back again... What do you think? what moves should I make?

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    Default Re: Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    This is pretty funny reading dudes. I'll offer what I know, but it may not be what you in your situation.

    You're very into her. Sounds like you want a life with her, but how far would you go (working hard, self-improvement, all that hard stuff) to win her? While she's busy with her own plans, work on your own for becoming a better person. Bulging muscles aren't going to work if you don't have a good attitude--the atittude, man, that's where you can draw her attention.
    Show her what you want to do. Be positive--don't beat yourself up in front of her.

    See, my situation is kinda backwards. I'm working part-time, going to college full-time, and barely squeezing in breathing room as it is. The girls at work all like me; six of them already tried to be my girlfriend over the last year or so, but I sidestepped each time.

    They're attracted to me because they've seen me working hard. My mom tells me that's what attracted me to my dad so many years ago. I think girls tend to want a guy they've seen working hard; it helps to explain what you're doing to become a better person, and say something like," [girl's name], I'm getting too full of myself. I'm sorry, tell me more about yourself."

    If you're nervous, let your body language say it. You're not sure what to say? Just say," ah, I dunno what to say. You want to talk?" Usually the conversation snowballs from there once you hit on something--such as her hair style.

    Ask about being friends on Facebook. Syrus's comment on the 2-week rule is pretty good, but here's another:

    Fit your schedule to hers. When is she graduating? Can she get up earlier one morning to do coffee with you? Just get the schedule part figured out two or so weeks in advance, and don't worry about failure--crap happens, and there's no point whining.

    Personally, study groups and college events are one of the best to invite a girl to. I found the study group helps, because if there's not a lot to review, a conversation with her is easy. Just ask her about something she did recently, for instance.

    Just my attempt at advice. I haven't had much to do with girls who're interested in me, but I picked up quite a few ways to get one. Just get her attention and do stuff (the friendship bond has an emotion part, so help her out with the talking), and usually you can get her email or add her on FB (or Twitter) on the first blind date.

    Hope this helps. Michel.

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    Default Re: Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    Hehe, dont say stuff that you cant deliver
    If she dosn't want to hang out with you, she is not feeling enought attraction, comfort, bond.. bettween you too.. so you have some more work to do.
    ...nothing sales like enthusiasm and confidence

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    Default Re: Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    Jstud, 99% of the time that's a girls way of saying she's not interested. Think about it, if a girl is truly into you, she'd make time for you. Just move on.

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    Default Re: Responses to "I dont have any time these days".

    Quote Originally Posted by Brom2855 View Post
    This is pretty funny reading dudes. I'll offer what I know, but it may not be what you in your situation.

    You're very into her. Sounds like you want a life with her, but how far would you go (working hard, self-improvement, all that hard stuff) to win her? While she's busy with her own plans, work on your own for becoming a better person. Bulging muscles aren't going to work if you don't have a good attitude--the atittude, man, that's where you can draw her attention.
    Show her what you want to do. Be positive--don't beat yourself up in front of her.

    See, my situation is kinda backwards. I'm working part-time, going to college full-time, and barely squeezing in breathing room as it is. The girls at work all like me; six of them already tried to be my girlfriend over the last year or so, but I sidestepped each time.

    They're attracted to me because they've seen me working hard. My mom tells me that's what attracted me to my dad so many years ago. I think girls tend to want a guy they've seen working hard; it helps to explain what you're doing to become a better person, and say something like," [girl's name], I'm getting too full of myself. I'm sorry, tell me more about yourself."

    If you're nervous, let your body language say it. You're not sure what to say? Just say," ah, I dunno what to say. You want to talk?" Usually the conversation snowballs from there once you hit on something--such as her hair style.

    Ask about being friends on Facebook. Syrus's comment on the 2-week rule is pretty good, but here's another:

    Fit your schedule to hers. When is she graduating? Can she get up earlier one morning to do coffee with you? Just get the schedule part figured out two or so weeks in advance, and don't worry about failure--crap happens, and there's no point whining.

    Personally, study groups and college events are one of the best to invite a girl to. I found the study group helps, because if there's not a lot to review, a conversation with her is easy. Just ask her about something she did recently, for instance.

    Just my attempt at advice. I haven't had much to do with girls who're interested in me, but I picked up quite a few ways to get one. Just get her attention and do stuff (the friendship bond has an emotion part, so help her out with the talking), and usually you can get her email or add her on FB (or Twitter) on the first blind date.

    Hope this helps. Michel.
    This is sound advice, but I have a small suggestion to offer.

    Perhaps instead of saying, "I don't know what to say. You want to talk?" you could turn it into a neg by saying, "Well I've been leading this conversation for forever now, your turn, princess!" or something like that.


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