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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by jellymint43 View Post
    i'm almost afraid she thought we were friends and now she's legitimately hurt. She had been only coming up to me and asking how i've been ,and asking if i want to study together in the library. She seriously acts like we never even hookedup and i find it bizarre. She doesn't even react when I'm talking to or hitting on other girls. I have female friends, i dont think i need another one.
    well, she's definately trying to be your friend. If that's not what you want, then just awkward freezeout and see what comes of it afterwards.

    or act cool and aim for her best friend, see if she reacts then. hahaha

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    well, she's definately trying to be your friend. If that's not what you want, then just awkward freezeout and see what comes of it afterwards.

    or act cool and aim for her best friend, see if she reacts then. hahaha
    awkward Freeze Out?

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    dog. make it clear what you want as funny and flirty as you can. if she isnt going just ignore her. she'll know why. its not rude to ignore someone whos rejected you. ("yes it is. i hate when people do that to me!!!!" i used to feel the same way. then i realized if u cant beat em. join em.)
    once u establish the conviction its ok to ignore her. you wont feel bad doing it. also it will raise her attraction to you do u know why?....have u ever had a female friend who liked u but you only wanted to be friends with. deep down u knew it hurt her. if she came onto u and made it clear in a non threatening and demanding, fun, nice, social way that she wanted to be more than friends. would you have really been mad at her for ignoring you. NO! this shows that you respect yourself+2 to attraction. also. since u are ignoring her this shows ur not afraid to break social norms. take risk. and be rude. you lack fear.which implies so many positive things.+2 to attraction

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Whatup View Post
    dog. make it clear what you want as funny and flirty as you can. if she isnt going just ignore her. she'll know why. its not rude to ignore someone whos rejected you. ("yes it is. i hate when people do that to me!!!!" i used to feel the same way. then i realized if u cant beat em. join em.)
    once u establish the conviction its ok to ignore her. you wont feel bad doing it. also it will raise her attraction to you do u know why?....have u ever had a female friend who liked u but you only wanted to be friends with. deep down u knew it hurt her. if she came onto u and made it clear in a non threatening and demanding, fun, nice, social way that she wanted to be more than friends. would you have really been mad at her for ignoring you. NO! this shows that you respect yourself+2 to attraction. also. since u are ignoring her this shows ur not afraid to break social norms. take risk. and be rude. you lack fear.which implies so many positive things.+2 to attraction
    I don't want a relationship right now, but she's hot and i want to bang her. so you think i should ignore her? that's what i did when she asked me if we were cool. she called me on it i guess.

    i tried to make it clear to her i don't want a relationship too so she knows I want to bang her.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    whatever happens, make sure you leave a positive impression. i feel that some people pull a "if i can sleep with her, screw it" additude. if you cant get it done, dont blame her. if you can salvage a friendship in the end, do it. HB's always have HS friends. if you can prove worthy, he may help u out in the future

    also, if you prove to be a manipulative jerk, she will also tell her HB friends.

    moral: if u can do work, do work. if you must give up, do it smooth and make a HB friend.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by theBOB View Post
    whatever happens, make sure you leave a positive impression. i feel that some people pull a "if i can sleep with her, screw it" additude. if you cant get it done, dont blame her. if you can salvage a friendship in the end, do it. HB's always have HS friends. if you can prove worthy, he may help u out in the future

    also, if you prove to be a manipulative jerk, she will also tell her HB friends.

    moral: if u can do work, do work. if you must give up, do it smooth and make a HB friend.
    I don't want to be friends with her if I can't sleep with her. I don't think she has any HB friends. She's kind of independent and a loner. She's very quiet and doesn't talk to anybody. The other day I came up and said something charming to her, and she just walked away and didn't respond. I think the Freeze Out may have failed

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    buddy your over thinking things!! Be her friend, hold the upper hand and playfully flirt, I guarantee if you hold the sexual Tension but don't make it to direct, at some point she will let her guard down and you WILL get in on that.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with a situation like this?

    What you should do is stay friends with her, act like you guys never hooked up.. At the same as you did before. When she invites you out somewhere, flake on her and tell her you have stuff to do, don't be so available. Ignore her sometimes but still make it as if you didn't do anything wrong


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