Is this bad for a bartender?so i went to a bar, and the bartender was very flirty and we had a decent talk. It was a quiet night, so she spent some time, letting me sample some foods and talked to me about life stuff (education, job, etc). As she gave me my bill, she wrote on it her name, number and e-mail. I decided to pull a prank and I tipped her 5 dollars on a 60 bill. I added her on facebook 2 days later and she sent me a message saying how it was weird i tipped a "potential" friend less than 10% and randoms. At first I thought, maybe she's a simply a golddigger, but she was so perfect at the same time and I wanted to make it up, so i went to the bar the following weekend, and started off with a note saying how it was a all a joke and added 20 bucks to her last weeks tip and ordered my usual drink (which she remembers). I have dropped by that bar maybe once every 2-3 weeks and had light convos with her. But can't seem to get her to hang out with me off of work. Did my joke ruin it? or is she faking being nice for better tips? or is she trying to get to know me better at the bar and see how I interact with others before agreeing to meeting? Is she playing hard to get? What are some things I could do to stand out faster? She always greets me with a wide smile and we had a great talk the last time, but she never texted me when I left her my number.