So in a case where there's a girl whom you used to like but didn't have a chance, or just friendship faded, or suddenly you see them again and things looks good ... how do you get connected with them.... e-mail? facebook? text (if number is up to date).. without them feeling why is all of a sudden messaging me? how do you get a chance to hang out with them and make it seem like it's a fresh start/impression as if it was the first time meeting.. ever?