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    Memoria is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help with a girl from school

    Okay I'm in some need of help in "how to approach a woman". I hope this is the right place to ask this question. Also I would like to apologise for my English right now (Its not really that good, But I'll do my best to use proper English)

    So my problem is that I don't really know how to approach a girl (Iím rather shy). Approaching them is my problem, once I get them to talk everything goes smoothly. Its just the first contact that I really have trouble with.

    So on to the situation then,
    On my school (I'm on high school, class of about 200 students). There is this girl that really caught my attention. But sadly I never see her outside of class. And in class sheís always with her friends (pretty big group, which isnít making things easier)..

    So any advise on how to best handle this? Or did I forgot to give some important information or something?

    Thanks in advance

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    Element is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help with a girl from school

    I had the same exact problem. High school huh? That probably means there's cliques. Cliques are just "tribes" of people. The thing that I did was go to the girls desk everyday after class acted like I was waiting for my friend who sat in front of her, and talked to her in the meantime. Eventually the girl started to like me....after about 4 months. Not the best idea. Instead what I would recommend you do would be to first approach the girl, I know its gonna be hard, but its something you just have to do. Just make small talk with her, and just focus on having fun with her. After this if someone does something stupid in class, then roll your eyes at her, as if you're signaling to her "what an idiot...". This will build rapport with you two, and is very effective at doing so. That was just one example, I'm sure you can create more. When you build up enough rapport, then use facebook and texting to your advantage. Text her, and facebook her, but not too much. After that, start talking to her more, but approach with the Mindset that you are just there to have fun...no other reasons. You should be on good ground then.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Help with a girl from school

    puppy love is the when it's the MOST fun. I mean, right now, girls don't know much about guys gaming on them and people do pretty stupid stuff when they "like" someone in high school...

    here's a few ideas for you to pick from...
    a) if you have a class with her, then maybe ask her to meet you in the library to study... best way to get her number
    b) if you are good at a music instrument, arts, sports or anything, show off a little bit, but don't over do it, make sure she knows you got more above the other guys in school.
    c) if a friend knows anyone in that big group of friends, go with them for a quick hello and start a light conversation.
    d) Just approach her alone and say .. "I've seen you around and I'm ashamed I can never say hello to you when that happens. I'm Memoria, what's your name?" .. and go form there...

    for now, simple, but REMEMBER ONE THING ... don't be shy, have fun, be funny, crack a joke or laugh at someone when the time is appropriate and work your charm...

    I would teach you how to game and stuff, but this is all in school, so don't be "labelled" as a bad guy.

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    Memoria is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help with a girl from school

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    puppy love is the when it's the MOST fun. I mean, right now, girls don't know much about guys gaming on them and people do pretty stupid stuff when they "like" someone in high school...

    here's a few ideas for you to pick from...
    a) if you have a class with her, then maybe ask her to meet you in the library to study... best way to get her number
    b) if you are good at a music instrument, arts, sports or anything, show off a little bit, but don't over do it, make sure she knows you got more above the other guys in school.
    c) if a friend knows anyone in that big group of friends, go with them for a quick hello and start a light conversation.
    d) Just approach her alone and say .. "I've seen you around and I'm ashamed I can never say hello to you when that happens. I'm Memoria, what's your name?" .. and go form there...

    for now, simple, but REMEMBER ONE THING ... don't be shy, have fun, be funny, crack a joke or laugh at someone when the time is appropriate and work your charm...

    I would teach you how to game and stuff, but this is all in school, so don't be "labelled" as a bad guy.
    Well now that you mention being good at something, I'm a pretty good drawer.. Bunch of poepple are coming to take I look when I start.. Sounds like a good iea indeed! Deffenly going to try it out next week.


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