A lot of people ask me what’s a good opener. The thing is, anything could work if it is delivered in the right way. Sure there are ones that are better than others, but the only way you are going to find out what ones work best for you is if you try them.
To be safe, have 2 or 3 openers that you have memorized and perfected. The more original, the better it will work. Take 5 minutes before you go out to think of them if you don’t have any already, and text them to yourself so you have them in your phone.
Also, you must also be aware of the environment that you are in. For example, one of my favorite openers is asking ‘cats or dogs?’ It is playful, innocent and fun. At a bar it works great. But day game it doesn’t work as well because women are in more of a logical Mindset.
Another huge tip, if you get solid eye contact – ALL YOU NEED IS ‘hi.’ The more flirtatious a look, the less you have to say.
My favorite is to improvise and point out something relative to the environment I’m in with a witty comment. NOT à ‘do you come here often?’
Finally, don’t waste opportunities. Just go out there and even if it is to find out what openers work and what don’t; TAKE ACTION.