The girl I am going to describe is the same one in the Bitch Shields post if any of you have read it. Basically I disarmed the Bitch Shield, and shot it straight to h3ll. I was sitting outside of a classroom a few days ago, with one of her friends, when my "target" and one of her other friends come walking by. The target then tries to start conversation with me, but I blow her off (I had no idea what I was thinking). After about 5 minutes she tries to start conversation again, and this time I was a little more receptive. I was situated in a 3 "man" set (all girls), and was concentrating my attention on the other girls as opposed to my "target".
I held conversation relatively well, and made them laugh a lot. I had a "Dane Cook" Mindset, in the sense where I tried to emulate his comedy style. I hinted sexual themes, while using humor in an attempt to build attraction (On a side note, laughing is directly related to attraction...right? Anyways I digress). After a while, her friend dragged me into the classroom for something, and as I was walking in the classroom I heard my target shout at me to "be careful", and "don't let that teacher anywhere near your no-no areas" (if any of you are wondering, the teacher is gay, and I DO NOT in any means imply that in a derogative way, and I do apologize if anything I have said was hurtful). My target was then dragged away by her friends so that they could go watch a movie somewhere.
I felt good about the interaction, but I felt something was "missing". I didn't feel that she would've been comfortable with me texting her later on that night, or talking on facebook on a regular basis. After some thinking later, I discovered I was missing the "comfort" aspect of the "pick up". I was able to build enough attraction, and to keep attention, and to build intrigue, however, I didn't build enough comfort, and to be completely honest, all of the scripted routines for comfort, I just don't use them, due to the lack of versatility. Usually comfort just comes naturally to me, and my target, but this situation seems a little different. I can't seem to build comfort, or at least I don't know how to build comfort with this one individual girl. Any tips on some "foolproof" comfort building?