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    applebottomnlp is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Opening without Approaching

    I personally use NLP Seduction Techniques when picking up females. I like Apple Bottom females and just sexy females in general and these are high value targets.

    This just means they have a high social value in a club because so many guys in the club wants their attention. So how should you approach these females?

    I do something I call Opening without approching her with a pick up line. The fact is, these females have heard it all and when they simply walk to the bathroom in a club, there guards are up because guys are trying to talk to them. You hear the usual, "Damn baby girl, can I talk to you for a second."

    The majority of these attempts will be brushed aside. So what I will do is pull out my cell and wait for her to walk back to her table. When I see her approaching, I smile and act like I'm texting. I then say:

    "Excuse me, I wanted to get a females perspective on something. I just got a text from a friend who moved to Atlanta 9 months ago with his girlfriend. Now, the relationship is over but they still have 3 months on the lease and he wants to bring girls by the apartment. This gets his ex girlfriend upset and I'm telling him just take the girl to a hotel and he says it's his apartment and he can do what he wants. I say he's just trying to get under her skin. Do you agree with me or do you think he has a point?"

    What this does is bring down her guard some and now we're just conversating. You can also guage her response and this will tell you a lot. When a female gives a quick response and her body language is saying closed, then I just let her go.

    See, I'm a little different in this area. I'm not going to waste time trying to climb a difficult mountain when there's an easy mountain to climb. Some people want to show that they can get any girl with there NLP or PUA skills but that's just not the case. Now, I might be able to get a few of these hard cases but why bother?

    I can go into a club, stand near the girls bathroom or at the bar and run the same story on 3 different sexy females. One will be open and talkative and then I can build rapport and start embedding suggestions throughout the conversation.

    This works with or without the cell phone and it doesn't matter if the story is true or not. The story is designed to get her attention because like I said, there's a short window when you approach high value targets in the club.

    I remember sitting in the lobby of my apartment and these two females came in to pick up their friend to go to the club, so I said,"I'm about to start an online magazine with my friend and we're down to 2 names. blank blank magazine or blank blank magazine. Which do you think is better?"

    I don't even remember the names of the magazines because I just made it up. She talked about both names and she told her friend to go get their friend and she would be waiting down in the lobby with me. When her friends came back down she said,"I wish I had more time to talk about this." That was all I needed to hear. We exchanged numbers and I slept with her after I took her to get something to eat and a movie.

    So when you're dealing with these females, you have to get their attention so you can start building rapport and dropping embedded suggestions throughout the conversation and pick up lines are not the way to go.

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    CallMeWonder is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Opening without Approaching

    So basically what you're saying is disqualify yourself.

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    Default Re: Opening without Approaching

    Say at what point do you get out of the conversation trap and go for the reward. Too much chat = the talkative stranger or worse-FRIEND.


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