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    OptimusZero is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Do some girls not respond to negs/teasing?

    Quick question guys?...I've got a date lined up tomorrow but this girl is throwing me a bit of a curveball. We met through work (different offices) we had a few great conversations. Her personality so far isn't particularly flirty but I suspect that could be since we've only interacted at work. Anyway she's seriously hot so I expected she's used to guys kissing her ass but when I tease her about her style or being a bad dresser she just gets quiet like she isn't sure what to say. She knows I'm joking and she laughs when I outrageous comments about other people or girls in general but she gets really quite and unsure if I tease her directly. Do some girls just not respond to this teasing / playful negs???

    She's told me she was glad I asked her out and she's looking forward to the date so I figure I probably just need to NOT fuck this up. But usually when I tease girls they get more flirty. The fact that this girl is acting the opposite is throwing me a curveball.

    Anyone else encounter a girl like this?

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    Default Re: Do some girls not respond to negs/teasing?

    Quote Originally Posted by OptimusZero View Post
    Quick question guys?...I've got a date lined up tomorrow but this girl is throwing me a bit of a curveball. We met through work (different offices) we had a few great conversations. Her personality so far isn't particularly flirty but I suspect that could be since we've only interacted at work. Anyway she's seriously hot so I expected she's used to guys kissing her ass but when I tease her about her style or being a bad dresser she just gets quiet like she isn't sure what to say. She knows I'm joking and she laughs when I outrageous comments about other people or girls in general but she gets really quite and unsure if I tease her directly. Do some girls just not respond to this teasing / playful negs???

    She's told me she was glad I asked her out and she's looking forward to the date so I figure I probably just need to NOT fark this up. But usually when I tease girls they get more flirty. The fact that this girl is acting the opposite is throwing me a curveball.

    Anyone else encounter a girl like this?
    Yes there are women like that. i dated one. The only way to describe her was "to the point" and straightforward and direct. She was a little cold, and was unresponsive to that kind of thing, as if she was just too serious. I would stop negging her because it's possible she can see through what you're doing. Based on what you've said so far and even her telling you she's looking forward to the date, that strikes me as mature and "to the point" just like the girl i dated. Whenever I tried that on her, she actually seemed unimpressed. (that's the only way to describe it. but do you know what I mean?)

    Don't be a pansy or anything. Be confident around her, but speak to her as a friend. i think that might work.

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    Default Re: Do some girls not respond to negs/teasing?

    yeah jellymint is on the ball, be carefull. not all girls like negs, i believe it has to do with the fact that maybe they had an ex boyfriend, or a intimate friend that would do the same, and they had a bad experience with him. I would research on that, the best way to know how she is going to react after you get to know her in a personal level is trying to ask those questions indirectly, as a friend. But remember, not too much like a friend, or you are going straight to the "friends zone".


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