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    Default Names you call women

    Do you always call a women by her name? Is it ok to call a girl hun or babe? Everything I have seen written by women say they hate the term babe. What do you find works? Do you avoid using their name period?
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    Default Re: Names you call women

    No you put on a sweet and deeper tone when you call her by her real name and for the rest you can call her everything. If babe of hun lies you comfortable, use those. For me it works best and i get most enthousiastic responses by calling them weird and doublemeaning names. Like when i get called by this girl: "Hi honeybee/killlerbee -magnet", or whatever i feel like."You look like a fucking capitalist to me, i name you Kassandra!!"I also like to call them names like Frankie or Freddy or Charlie, Benny,m whateverYou can also call them "Highschool Girl", "Six year old" "Telephone Game" "Posterboy lookalike" "White Light Harry With Jean Harlow voice" and when we trust eachother as friends and she knows how my record goes i even call her "Soon To Be A Corpse"
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    Default Re: Names you call women

    I generally use a progression of pet names as I build attraction. I usually start with some funny, context related nickname, work to a more flirty nickname (still context related), move to "hon". I like hon because it mean so many things, but it usually conveys affection. I have never found "babe" to be effective, and it feels awkward for me.

    Other than "hon" I tend to stay away from the really cliche terms, and the ones that have to do with food...unless I am teasing them with it.

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    Default Re: Names you call women

    In contrast, the word Babe is my go to word, I don't put much emphasis on it, and I'll use it at the end of a sentence when I pretend to be getting distracted by something/someone else - (as in "Well thats down on you babe" whilst turning my head to someone else in distance and bringing my attention back) after that, when I see them I'll great with "Hey Babe" until "Gorgeous" becomes comfortable enough. I've had a complaint once off a girl who linked it to the talking Pig, I just poked a little fun and carried on - wouldn't call it a negative result in any respect.
    I have read in the past, that using the girls actual name in moderation, creates quite a bond because it is so personal to them rather than a pet name, however, I tried it once and she hated it - it's worth a try though because that girl just didn't like her name full stop

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    Default Re: Names you call women

    Ladies will respond well to pretty much any pet name as long as they see a bit of themselves in it. I never use stock names. I simply avoid addressing her directly using her name until some interesting piece of info about her, her interests, etc. comes up that I can use.

    If she can see the connection between why you're calling her a particular name you've scored twice: you've got the bonding aspect of the pet name and you've shown her that you've remembered something about her, or a time you shared together.

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    Default Re: Names you call women

    People, in general, like to hear their names. I use their names, for the most part. It helps me remember their names and makes them feel important when I remember it for more than three minutes.

    The second most term I use to refer to them or get their attention is something that embraces a moment we have shared together or from something she has told me; it has to be original. I wouldn't call a doctor, "Doc", for example.
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