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    boris_horis is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Hey everyone, I'm pretty new to this, but I've been working on my Approach Anxiety and starting to make headway with talking to girls and starting to flirt with them. A couple of times they have said something though that I'm having trouble with coming up with a good answer for:

    Last week in a bar, a girl next to me at the bar asked me to buy her a drink. Of course I said, 'I don't just buy drinks for every random girl at the bar' or some such. She came back with 'What do I need to do?'

    Second scenario, I play in a band, at the gig I noticed a couple of girls watching us set up. Just before we were due on they moved closer to the stage, so I went over to chat ("Have you moved for a better view <wink>" etc.). In the break I was talking to them again and one of them said about being 'groupies', so I joked that there was a queue for the job of chief groupie- but that there were probably ways she could move up more quickly. Her response was <giggle> "what might that be then?"

    On both these occasions I then stumbled, I hadn't really got a good comeback for such a direct question - is this a shit test? Or an ioi? - are they expecting me to come back with something directly sexual? Or should I say something like "well that's for you to experiment and find out?"

    What do you guys think? What would you say in response to this sort of direct question?

    Respect to you all!

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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Your best bet is to answer a question with a question. "what might that be then?" you might say "well, what do YOU have in mind" big smile...

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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    You need to work on being more witty. With the first girl when she asked , What do I need to do? You should have answered "Find out" with a big smile and start teasing her.

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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Hey guys, thanks for the replies.I'm gradually catching on, spent too many years being the guy watching from the sidelines, never daring to approach. I'm in my mid 30s now, but even after a few months of reading stuff and trying out, I'm starting to see results with some cracking chicks Thanks again!

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Quote Originally Posted by boris_horis View Post
    Hey guys, thanks for the replies.I'm gradually catching on, spent too many years being the guy watching from the sidelines, never daring to approach. I'm in my mid 30s now, but even after a few months of reading stuff and trying out, I'm starting to see results with some cracking chicks Thanks again!
    No prob I kinda expected you to be younger haha.

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    boris_horis is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Hehe, I do look a lot younger than my years (look more like late 20s). I've just always been crap with women, but stumbled upon David DeAngelo while randomly browsing last year. Read a load of stuff and decided to try it out (even though I was a bit skeptical) - bugger me, it actually works! I'm now starting to attract girls in their 20s Still got a long way to go, but jeez even *talking* to these girls was a major step forward for me.

    You guys rule!

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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    You really couldn't think of anything when she asked what she needed to do?

    But seems like you're making good progress with pick-up. I hope it'll work the same for me when I start sarging.

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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Well, I did think of something, trying for the c/f approach what I actually said to the first girl was "Well I've got a pile of ironing that needs doing..." . It didn't go down too well though

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    Default Re: When she says 'What do I need to do?'

    Personally I would have gone with something like: "I can't just tell you, that would be too easy"


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