Hey everyone, I'm pretty new to this, but I've been working on my Approach Anxiety and starting to make headway with talking to girls and starting to flirt with them. A couple of times they have said something though that I'm having trouble with coming up with a good answer for:
Last week in a bar, a girl next to me at the bar asked me to buy her a drink. Of course I said, 'I don't just buy drinks for every random girl at the bar' or some such. She came back with 'What do I need to do?'
Second scenario, I play in a band, at the gig I noticed a couple of girls watching us set up. Just before we were due on they moved closer to the stage, so I went over to chat ("Have you moved for a better view <wink>" etc.). In the break I was talking to them again and one of them said about being 'groupies', so I joked that there was a queue for the job of chief groupie- but that there were probably ways she could move up more quickly. Her response was <giggle> "what might that be then?"
On both these occasions I then stumbled, I hadn't really got a good comeback for such a direct question - is this a shit test? Or an ioi? - are they expecting me to come back with something directly sexual? Or should I say something like "well that's for you to experiment and find out?"
What do you guys think? What would you say in response to this sort of direct question?
Respect to you all!