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    Spudguy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to go about this?

    This is my first post... so, hi.

    There's a girl that I randomly added on Facebook about a year ago. Recently she's started tweeting a lot too, and I'm starting to really like her. She likes the same sort of music as me, quotes movies I really like and seems to not like being single (she's said a few times on twitter that she loves the getting to know someone stage of the relationship).

    Anyway, we're both going to Download Festival, so I invited her to camp with my group of friends (there's about 30 of us, and she's taking a couple of friends with her too, a lot of people don't know each other in my camp - it's a public thing). She RSVP'd the Facebook event and she says every now and then that she's looking forward to it.

    My problem is that I can't seem to get a proper conversation going with her? Like, I've messaged her my number under the pretext of using it to meet up at Download, but she never replied to the personal message, and only seems to talk to me on the public domain.

    I was wondering what I could say to her to get her to latch onto that "getting to know each other" stage that she seems to be into?

    Thanks in advance

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How to go about this?

    ohh been there done that ... girls love to be in relationships, but that doesnt mean they are easy and/or willing to settle with any guy...

    girls who are public with you.. means they have nothing to hide, and they are open about your friendship to her.. yes.. friendship. She wants nothing more personal with you, yeah you are going to download festival and all that sh1t, but so what? i go clubbing with 70 ppl, does it mean that one girl i'm eyeing on likes me?

    pretty sure she has decided to keep you like a normal friend, nothing more or less, or else she would have texted you back or arranged something .. my advice.. go and have a good time and go with the flow.. no effort is needed, if she likes u naturally then start again.

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    Spudguy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to go about this?

    Okay, thanks. Shit sucks though... I always seem to get thrown in the friendzone. xD

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    Syrus is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How to go about this?

    Girls are very perceptive, if you have a motive, she will notice.


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