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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    If I have build my friendship using only technique and hooks and crooks,if you guys get me,it will have me struggling inside to make any real connection.

    Problem is that the pua makes this process into a systemized game as it were.

    Love is not a system-it just happens. Sure you can get her number on a first meeting.But what happens after that?

    You cant go back to using gimmicks anymore.Time to show who you really are and hopefully you are just as good as you pretended to be.

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    Quote Originally Posted by Morrisb View Post
    I was with you right until you went off about Trinidian girls..?? lol I had similar thoughts about foreign women. But, I later noticed foreign women who are entirely different. It's the GIRL bra.

    I think what the responders are saying is use routines as backup, not the entire thing, until you're comfortable on your own. Then you do natural or whatever works for you.

    I'm natural at talking. Except talking is how I go on or become the friend. So I bypass a few things/go direct-which ironically takes the pressure off.
    yes I agree.Thanks.The routine will help if you get stuck yes.
    So do you sit and decide what you gonna do after you finish reading all this stuff?
    Surely you need to come up with a plan before you go out?Or do you?

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    NATURAL game, you can get to this level with experience. I don't do routines anymore.

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    Cool obviously just wants to talk. Look at the multiple replies. He's saying it's all negative without any effort. He's got an excuse for everything! Look dude. You either want to try or you don't..

    Cool, I'm no expert. I wind up winging it. Something always happens that messes up my plan. Or, I think too hard LIKE YOU which is counter-productive. Remember the 3-5 second rule. That builds pressure. So the answer is yes AND No. Nothing will ever be PERFECT.

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    As I said.. Natural game!

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    im not a normal poster but i read alot of the forums and i just couldnt help myself. obviously cool ryan and his man website are in the dark. after 8 years of marriage i doubt he is the person to take advice from. benifit of a doubt maybe he is scoring alot of affairs on the side with his natural game. routines and canned material arent a basis for what you say in a relationship, its for what to say when you walk up to a girl when you first start out so you dont say hi and just stand there nervous. you dont have to tell anyone your a pro football player or astronaut. canned material can be a vacation you remember or a cool event that you can tell a story about over and over again if you run out of shit..and it doesnt have to be chronological you can make that dhv be last week if you want. girls have radar and know that you are hitting on them... Hi im so and so your hot doesnt always work.

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    Quote Originally Posted by cbredeyejedi View Post
    Hi im so and so your hot doesnt always work.
    Exactly............. .................... .....

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    If you're opening just to break the ice, you need a transition to your dhv. So just say, "The way I look at it, if you see someone you might like, you should just talk to them. At the very least, it'll be a story you can tell your friends like 'I met this guy today and it was kind of crazy but he was soo cute' or something."

    But the idea is to have an opener, not an icebreaker, that actually starts a conversation. You want something that makes her laugh or sparks interest for an easy transition into your dhv game/story. Finding openers that fit you and interest her will make it so much easier in the long run.

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    Hi CallMEWONDER,

    I used to go through small talk with that girl first then I will get to know her dream, motivation, career.. anything that's personal & important for that girl.

    Don't chit chat for non-personal things, no one actually like to talk about those things.

    Go for personal & meaningful conversation is the best way to solidfy the attraction of her on you.

    When she feels that you 'get' her, she will grow more familiar with me. The result? she's more likely to comply anything you ask her to do..such as move her,Instant Date, date later night, or even go home with you.

    Go for meaningful, personal conversation. That's the key to smoothly move forward your interaction with her.

    Ciao,
    Naughty Napoleon

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    Default Re: What to say after an opener?

    it doesnt really matter about her answer- just change topics

    you can even stack another opener
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