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    Default Beginner Openers!?

    I've never really walked up to a girl that I've seen in a mall or a "chill" spot around my area with my friends, but I need some advice on some openers any ideas? I've been told about the simple Hi trick but im not really sure how it works.

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    You need to come up with your own openers.. You can either be direct or indirect. Comment on a piece of clothings, or a situational opener. I suggest reading a book on game first to help you get a better understanding.

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    Hey you look like someone i want to meet!
    the police took my picture

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    Quote Originally Posted by Snakes View Post
    Hey you look like someone i want to meet!
    That's a good one to start off with!

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    "I bet you have a nice/beautiful smile" her responses will be one of the 3 a) Crack a BIG smile b) Smile & Blush c) Smile and say to you..."Thank You." Once she does one of those you say, "Ah! See? I knew it." That leaves you an open door to start a conversation. If she ignores you or gives you a blank stare, guess what? She’s a biotch If that happens (slim chance) say "I guess not" and walk away. She just did you a big favor and saved you time. Remember you want a girl who is SWEET & FUN
    "Give her the gift of missing you" david d

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    Just ask her what she thinks about something. Opinion openers are always fun to make up on your own.

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    I used to use the "hi" all the time. Just say "Hi!, my name is Chris!" Extend your hand as if a handshake is expected, embrace the awkwardness, and do it all with a big shit eating grin on your face! Just try and radiate charisma.
    Do a bunch of them and use it to work on your improv.

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    DIRECT. I did this several times last week with success. I psyched myself up. I went to strangers. I asked a question based on observation-clothing or that I saw them around. Then I said that they seemed great and they should give me their number to talk later. It's not exactly perfection or stylized but for the moment it worked.

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    Hey you look like a great speaker and i like to find out how much you care for your reputation
    the police took my picture

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    Default Re: Beginner Openers!?

    Quote Originally Posted by Morrisb View Post
    DIRECT. I did this several times last week with success. I psyched myself up. I went to strangers. I asked a question based on observation-clothing or that I saw them around. Then I said that they seemed great and they should give me their number to talk later. It's not exactly perfection or stylized but for the moment it worked.
    Give an example so I can better understand.


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