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    TheApprentice is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Online chatting with a HB9 with no conversational flow

    Hi, this is my first post in the PUA forum. Just right off the bat I want to be honest and say that I have always been a AFC without too much natural talent with women. I could occasionally achieve rapport with quite a few good looking girls, but I always ended up in the friend zone or screwed up a perfect chance for romantic relationship.

    Recently I added a HB9 to my online chatting friend list and we started to talk. In the beginning I was able to joke around a bit and even got a compliment that I was interesting and she appreciated that. However, as we chatted more and more I started to notice that she was only showing interest whenever we discussed her life and her feelings. I am not sure if I am becoming the sympathetic friend again. Should I continue with this monotonous conversation and hope for a spark? The trouble with this girl is that she has a huge ego and can be extremely rude when she's mad.

    Is there any good tips on controlling the conversational flow with online girls?

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    Defiant is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Online chatting with a HB9 with no conversational flow

    I'd use Freeze Out and punisher's.
    So far you've played her game, and become more of a service than anything, speak more to her with the purpose of drawing out similarities between you, then, when you feel theres enough rapport, bring the conversation more to where you want it to go, if she doesn't play, you don't play. Remember who's in charge

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Online chatting with a HB9 with no conversational flow

    Sounds like you're being thrown into the friend zone, you need to set-up a date with her soon man, get some sexual Tension between you too.

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    Brandon "Batman" Greene is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Online chatting with a HB9 with no conversational flow

    A date won't help. You need to build attraction with her, and you needed it built DAYS ago. It may be too late to salvage. Maybe not.

    You have to be above her. If she has a huge ego, you have to either put yourself above it (value / status), or put her underneath you (make fun of her, point out flaws). These both build attraction, once you get it, and know how to. You may even want to try a combination of the two.

    Women with big egos are my favs. Cuz they are used to getting their way ALL the time. When they don't, their wiring gets all crossed, they don't know how to act. lol

    If she gets rude, tell her to grow up, or say that the behavior is unacceptable. Don't let rudeness stop you, YOU stop the RUDENESS!

    Remember the spark doesnt just happen. You create the spark. And I don't see that happening if you continue down this path. Hopefully you have a half-knowledge about this stuff and can do just that though.

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    xAfricana is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Online chatting with a HB9 with no conversational flow

    Uou care too much. Its like this. you feel you have too much invested in a stock, and youre carefully maneuvering around making sure its steady and that it wont rock over. The thing is this isnt the nasdaq. This is the sex stock market, and the only way to win is to be okay with losing. I bet you think over your messages, you go back and edit, re edit, make sure its ok and then you send it. Thats the problem. You just lost right there. You need to catch a case of Idontgiveafark.

    Don't listen to what these guys are telling you. They are trying to make you think more, when you should be thinking less. You act on the spot spontaneously and send the message. Then analyze why it worked why it didn't; think afterward, not before. And you will lose the first time if you act spontaneously. And the second and after that for a hundred more. But eventually you will reach a plateau where you actually dont give a fuck, and you will have learned from your mistakes and women will come to you. Or you can take their advice and carefully orchestrate ever sentence, period, and comma to try to be attractive and be subpar with women for the rest of your life. You need to fucking pick up your balls and get Rules of the Game by Neil, today. Right now. Go. Because you're either in this completely or youre going to drown. Without a burning desire, you will never succeed with women.
    Last edited by xAfricana; 08-10-2011 at 10:16 PM.


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