Tattoo Opener Forgive me, this opener is situational. When you are at a bar/club/pub and you see a girl with a tattoo on her upper back, her upper arm or her back neck (most tattoos are located in those places) make sure she is turned away, put your finger on the tattoo and don't lift it until she turns to you. You: "Okay that tattoo can no longer be ignored. What does it mean?" or "Why did you get it?"----Remember to smile. Most girls like to talk about their tattoo, it makes them feel artistic.