Thank you! I'll stop thinking to much about the opener. It seems like its just a way to get you into conversation with them and the most important part is the conversation. The next step would be attraction or projecting worth.. What good theories do you suggest for this part? I've read about NLP but only the fact that it exists and cant find any tips or routines as far as that goes.

Any suggestions on where to read or what to study as far as building attraction or setting yourself so that the target WANTS you to ask for a number-close or any close for that matter?

Thanks again for your response!

- Buckets