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    anon1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default help with conversation

    i recently added a girl on facebook that i use to see around at my old work(supermarket) i started inboxing her on facebook and i think i wrecked our convo and made it awkward but not too sure.. need tips. since im new here and not to sure how things work around here ill just copy and paste our convo.. ME-heyyy hope u dont mind the add, seen you around heaps, i use 2 work at ---- loll :) HER-hay nah i dont mind :) oh yeaaa ! ahaha thats where i seen u from, how come u dont work at ---- anymore ? ME-they sacked me because i went 2 schoolies for a week, was over it anyway :) but yehhh what u get upp 2 this weekend HER-oh that's sh1t :\ well lastnight i went and chilled with a mate, watched xmen, night before got into drama ... its a small world :L and today gota study for exams :) how about you ? ME-ahhh truee the new xmen movie? is it good? hahahahah ruthless:P what kind of drama :P ummm friday just chilled with a few mates and last night went to a fight night then a mates party was a pretty messy night :) HER-yes :) its so good ! explains how the characters became who they are, quite interesting :) ahaha drama as in i promised myself i wanted to stay single for a year & just really get to know someone, and have both good and bad moments cause after a couple of months/bad moments u realize what kind of person they really are right? anyways supposed to go on a date with someone but he found out his mate likes me so thought it was wrong then i had a massive argument with the mate who claims his different from guys but i actually know more amazing ppl then him so yea :L fight night ? what the heck is that :) ME- might have to watch it :) a years a long time, especially if your as gawjus as yourself ;P nothing ever goes as planned for mee! yeah true... loll thats a farked up situation! ummmmmm fight nights like when fighters from different gyms come and fight in a ring n sh1ttt:) my mate was meant to fight but his opponent backed otu last minute-_- this was in the morning and shes online at the moment but isnt replying what should i do without looking desperate lol ?

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    Default Re: help with conversation

    u gave a complement but ur last message was one way. u gave her no question or interesting reason to reply. ur still on the chase so its ok to send a double message wen u get no reply. personally my next message would be a 'Hey!' or 'Hey how u doin today'

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    Default Re: help with conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by 45shanklin View Post
    u gave a complement but ur last message was one way. u gave her no question or interesting reason to reply. ur still on the chase so its ok to send a double message wen u get no reply. personally my next message would be a 'Hey!' or 'Hey how u doin today'
    You never send a double message! It seems really needy. Wait a while then give her a wall comment. As I always say, I recommend approaching in person, that's the best way to go. Online game is a realm of it's own.

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    Default Re: help with conversation

    Let me just note that double-posting can be perfectly acceptable depending on not only the girl, but also the topic of conversation. I once gamed this really conservative and quiet girl on FB, and often times she just stops responding (back then, I fully believed in the double-posting=neediness guideline). Recently I double-posted whenever I felt like the chat needed a push or a change of topic was called for, and guess what? The girl was all too happy to continue talking after my doing so. So yeah, double-posting doesn't necessarily imply neediness; you just need to know when to do it.

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    Default Re: help with conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by TheBlackWolf View Post
    Let me just note that double-posting can be perfectly acceptable depending on not only the girl, but also the topic of conversation. I once gamed this really conservative and quiet girl on FB, and often times she just stops responding (back then, I fully believed in the double-posting=neediness guideline). Recently I double-posted whenever I felt like the chat needed a push or a change of topic was called for, and guess what? The girl was all too happy to continue talking after my doing so. So yeah, double-posting doesn't necessarily imply neediness; you just need to know when to do it.
    Absolutely agree.
    Think of it this way, I'm not saying that she does or does not, you can never ever know that completely, but always put yourself in her position, and imagine you get tons of messages from all type of people. Friends, guys coming on, anyone... imagine you have to answer to them all. Most of the time you won't if there's a load of it, and depends on your mood.
    Give them reason to reply, and if they don't come back again from another angle another time.
    Follow your intuition, or just go for it, and if you ask me, never ever concentrate on only one. Try to have as much convos opened, and you'll be closer to female perspective... their overall perspective even
    Only if a chick hardly ever responds and just keeps blowing you off, only then you leave her be. Otherwise keep coming back whenever you feel like it. of course, keep your value higher.


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