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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Is this better than using my stupid online dating site that I was trying to promote?

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I'am always terrifed of opening to a girl in really interested in, i think the main reason for that is my fear of running out of stuff to talk about or awkward pauses when a conversation ends and we need to decide what happens next. I'm just starting out and still learning the game(i never had), any advice is apreciated.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    You can't truly know if you're "interested" in a woman until you've talked to her. So until you've opened her, you're only fascinated or attracted. So you've got nothing to lose... other women will come along that pique your curiosity.

    Awkward pauses are your friend. Just stand there confidently like it isn't your responsibility to keep the conversation going. If it's a decent conversation to begin with, you'll be surprised how often she fuels it.

    [I moved my response about deep rapport and conversation skill to it's own thread. ]
    Last edited by JonTylerDiPrince; 03-08-2012 at 11:35 AM.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    thanks JonTylerDiPrince, i feel your example will help me a bit By combining an opener with a past experience or made up experience if need be, I can extend the conversation in my favor.
    thanks again

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by jiujitsu89 View Post
    thanks JonTylerDiPrince, i feel your example will help me a bit By combining an opener with a past experience or made up experience if need be, I can extend the conversation in my favor.
    thanks again
    no made-up experiences. be genuine 100% of the time.

    [I moved my response about deep rapport and conversation skill to it's own thread. ]
    Last edited by JonTylerDiPrince; 03-08-2012 at 11:35 AM. Reason: moved lengthy response to its own thread

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    thank you again JonTylerDiPrince for the advice and the time you put into it, i will do that tonight.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I'm a vet of simple techniques and actual game that works all the time. I'm from New York where I have dated every race and country. That's how I know what I'm talking about. I have tried it on everybody. lol

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by RocketMan View Post
    i will admit that is true about the effectiveness of getting a woman from a glum state into a happy one, you just made her day. but going up and saying smile to a girl who isnt smiling is pretty dull, how often do u see girls sitting by themselfs smiling? that would jus look weird, so to go up to her and tell her to do that, she would be like what am i just suposed to sit here and smile for the world every second of the day? its like telling her to do something that isnt natural for anyone to do. ive never seen someone always smiling.
    See, i know this thread sleeps with the fishes, but i have to say; I dont think he meant to tell her to always smile but more to not frown. Of course it is not natural to carry a smile around all day long (although i think you should be able to put on a genuine smile whenever it comes in handy). He just tells her that life isnt so bad. It is a cheer up, not a command.
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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I've created a few personal challenges that have really helped me out. They are mini-games of a sort I play when walking around town. These aren't openers, but they've helped me improve. Try these next time you're out on the street.

    1.) Walk in the center of the sidewalk or hallways, if you're at work. It should challenge you to be more dominant. You take up more space and force people to move around you. You'll feel like a dick, perhaps, but challenge 2 should reduce that.

    2.) At about 12 feet from anyone, smile and simply wave at them--nothing flashy. This is a great way to kill Approach Anxiety when you have a target just by putting you in a friendly mood. Then, when you've forced a recognition by them, say 'hello' or 'hi there' (Don't just blurt out 'hi' - that's too short. Make sure your greeting has two syllables). Again, just a way to proof yourself against aa.

    3.) On the streets, every second or third person you see walking their dog, stop them and ask if you may pet their dog. Again, just a way to get you in the friendly Mindset. Plus, cute women with dogs are just ... those are the girls I like. Practice this and have a few conversational lines ready like, how dog-friendly this area of town is. Or how you grew up with a dog that looked just like this. That can launch you right into Rapport Building.

    Again, not openers, but they've been helpful for me, and I'm eager to share.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    well I'm not posting much but I actually have some stuff to share and in this thread it's this:

    opening girs/groups in the streets really helps your aa!
    I went to the city and just opened a lot and tried getting further in conversation, and even though I never got far I grew a lot of balls

    now at night I open people and groups before I enter the club. I still have some AA, but just going outside and talking to people (everybody is friendly) really helps!

    I wouldn't even have thought about approaching people that I don't know, but now I just go in. It is really amazing how in 1 month I've gotten so much better with women and social situations

    thanks to the community for the great field reports and explanations,


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