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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    In my experience indirect openers (unless directly followed by a direct SOI) appear to be unauthentic and will immediately turn of the HB 9s and 10s unless you're an extremely skilled conversationalist. direct openers are great but for most girls they are a real smack in the face because it's such a raw statement that it puts too much pressure unless you are very calibrated and can smooth out the situation. I found (through practice) that a situational opener followed immediately by a direct SOI works the best. e.g. "i didn't know you were homeless... blah blah.." she replies. Either "well there is another reason i came to talk to you... (direct SOI)" or "haha just kidding, i just wanted an excuse to talk to you because you're so damn cute."

    This is what i've found fellas, but i do keep switching it up depending on how i feel and the situation. Different strokes for different folks!
    good luck!
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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Where are the best places to do day game?
    Do you guy's have specific places you go or do you just walk around the streets until you see a potential target.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by The Guru View Post
    Where are the best places to do day game?
    Do you guy's have specific places you go or do you just walk around the streets until you see a potential target.
    Depends on what you want. If you are on one of those "let's spend an hour and get a sh1t ton of numbers" sargrs where you and a buddy just run around opening set after set because you want to practice game then try somewhere target-rich witjout some engaging instruction. (Try coffee shops, book stores, malls, strip malls, college campuses, Target... not Walmarts, not jogging parks (they are hard to catch )

    If you want to run daygame spontaneously, like when you just see a chick and you are aching to talk to her, then everywhere is a place to daygame (targrt rich or poor)

    Really anywhere works
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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    When a girl smiles at you in the street or in a bar does that mean she wants you to approach her or is she just being friendly?
    This is probably a stupid question but a lot of girls smile at me and I never do anything about it (other than smile back)

    By the way Chance, nice work. It takes big balls to push on like that and keep trucking so all the respect to you.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    That means she's kinda interested, probably attracted to you...
    However some just want free drinks.

    But I would say smile back and maybe just go do anything that looks Interesting and then open, or just directly open whatever depending on the type of person you are...
    Just don't buy her a drink if she asks you to. You can however buy her a drink if you're cassual about it.

    I don't believe in the never buy her a drink until she shows
    Interes. It's just that you don't have to come of as trying to hard to get her to talk/stay.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    That's a lot of missed opportunity if that's true. I'm guessing most are just being friendly.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by The Guru View Post
    That's a lot of missed opportunity if that's true. I'm guessing most are just being friendly.
    depends on the girl really, some are also just teasing, they like to be in the middle of attention, so when you eventually come up to her she will turn you right down without even listening what you've got to say

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by Az007 View Post
    In my experience indirect openers (unless directly followed by a direct SOI) appear to be unauthentic and will immediately turn of the HB 9s and 10s unless you're an extremely skilled conversationalist. direct openers are great but for most girls they are a real smack in the face because it's such a raw statement that it puts too much pressure unless you are very calibrated and can smooth out the situation. I found (through practice) that a situational opener followed immediately by a direct SOI works the best. e.g. "i didn't know you were homeless... blah blah.." she replies. Either "well there is another reason i came to talk to you... (direct SOI)" or "haha just kidding, i just wanted an excuse to talk to you because you're so damn cute."

    This is what i've found fellas, but i do keep switching it up depending on how i feel and the situation. Different strokes for different folks!
    good luck!
    Az
    You've got the gist of things, but there's a little more too it than that. Having good conversation skills is more important in day game than any other type of game. If you're interested in Day Game I recommend you start having random conversations with everyone you meet. It really does do wonders for your conversation skills.

    One thing I've found did a lot to help out my Day Game is watching romantic comedies with my ex-gf back when we were dating. I know, I can feel some of you trying not to throw up as I speak. Hear me out you impatient bastards. When it comes to night game, you're trying to be that sexy one night stand. In Day Game, you're trying to be that charming guy that sweeps them off their feet out of the blue. Fact.

    I like that you use the same formula I do. Start of situational, then eventually go direct or just build up a metric ass-ton of attraction. You have to let her know that this isn't just some random flirtation on the street (unless you are just randomly flirting with girls on the street, which is a lot of fun. I have a girlfriend and I still flirt. But I'm a flirty guy).
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    One thing to realize is your opener really doesn't mean shit. Don't over think it. It is to do exactly that... Open.

    Approaching a girl who has her head down and looks like she is upset, might not be your best person to approach in learning, especially during the day. If you can see that she is a bit "down," there may be nothing you can say or do that would cheer her up. (i.e. if her dog just died, she really isn't going to give a shit what you have to say.) Plus, you are already looking to pull yourself out of a hole by cheering her up and THEN getting her to become attracted to you.

    I am a very friendly person and when I first started day game, I thought to go up to the girls who looked like they needed a laugh... And that would be all I would give them. It kind of made me feel like I sucked and was doing everything wrong but then I realized that some girls, especially during the day, are not in the mood to get hit on. If they are out shopping, they are out to shop. If they are at the gym, they are there to work out.

    Now, if you happen to catch them off guard or they feel as if they "happened to run into you" it will give them a different feeling. Logistics come into play ALOT during day game, again, because you really don't want to come off as someone who is hitting on her. Making a b-line for a girl at the magazine rack is definitely going to make her feel like she is getting hit on. However, if you happen to be looking at a magazine that is next to her... It will give you that perfect opportunity to open.

    Personally, I like opinion openers because they really don't give her a chance to say no. However, any type of situational opener will usually work pretty well during day game too. The difference between success using an opinion opener vs. a situational opener is really your conversation skills. I tend to be a bullshit artist, so as long as I approach and open, I can build attraction and get her hooked using even a weak opener with the right body language and tonality.

    And body language is veryyyy veryyy important. Objects in motion tend to stay in motion. So how do you open a girl who is moving? You either have to stop her dead in her tracks, keep moving along with her, or be posted up against a wall or something as she is walking by... and whatever you have to say better be damn interesting. By chasing a girl down, running down the street after her, you will automatically lower your own value and you might as well not even approach her at that point.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    In my efforts to up my day game I start random conversations with people just to get in the habit and gaining the confidence. I think its going alright so far, I can now just start chatting with cute girls. Still working on keeping these hot girls attracted LOL.

    I'm a 1st year student and I dont go clubbing or to bars much anymore so I tend to meet girls more in lectures or randomly on campus. The biggest help for me I think is just starting any conversation (usually situational) and just getting that experience. I believe that with practice you can perfect the craft LOL.
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