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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Hey peeps,
    Tell you the truth, I find myself having more success during the day than clubs/party scenes, which is where I have more of a challenge. One of favorite opener during the day, simple asking an attractive girl which works more positive than deny is "Are you open for meeting people?" unless she is really not the socializing type or just not in the mood at the time of the approach you will likely get a yes, after which you just proceed with the conversation, as her saying yes is an ioi

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by jazzyjeff View Post
    What do you do about day game aa? I find women to be very receptive to game in the bar/nightclub environment, but during the day they seem so busy, like it feels like youre really interupting their day.
    Yo Jazzy,
    Here is the advantage of day game to bar/clubs/party I find; the prospects and class of women you meet are more higher as you see all types, ones that works, office uniforms their in, bag packs n books college student, etc and cost you nothing either. Being at the club u likely going to pay an entrance fee, buy yourself a drink or two, loud music whispering back n fourth less she likes whatever on how u approach to step outside to actually hear you which is very rare where I am from, then again if she with her crew which probable she don't want to break away from. Don't get me wrong though, club/party scenes you can still meet quite a few women being the right spots, essence of these we all came out to party to be seen, obviously to socialize why its called social scenes then again some women seem to forget this and ooze out with their attitude among other tantrums the love to show us. Yeah but day game does have more benefits.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I find that Night game is more beneficial to your growth. Going out at night will progress your results faster. It incorporates more risk taking and being ballsie, because thats what you have to do to succeed at night game. you have competition against other guys and girls, against the environment (loud music), and against logistics. If you can get good at night game. You can Pick up day game like a breeze.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Ref bymail89,

    My flaw at night, is mixing the approach I would have in the day with night which doesn't seem to gel well at all. I think also the type of girl I may approach would require a different approach like a more aggresive mix with likkle finese, cause in night game type parties I be mongst seem to give attention to other guys who kinda mix their approach.
    What are few guide openers I could use though opening at these night game spots, like the clubs/parties?

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Have fun Chance!!!! thats what is most important.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Ill hit you up with some that i use:

    Just make sure you meet these requirements while using them for the best results:

    -Your not looking for an outcome(instead you're enjoying the moment)

    -You have the mind set "This is one girl out of billions in the world that I'm meeting."

    -You feel like even if it isn't successful you still got the "warm up" out of it (you understand that the more you warm up the more comfortable and relaxed you'll feel having fun throughout the night)

    -Good eye contact. (just lock eye contact until she looks away first)

    -Approach normally as if it were your friend.(indirect)

    -Have fun (Sense (hear, see, feel) funny things around the venue. and make jokes to yourself, if you feel that its funny and it made you laugh. say what made you crack up while in sets and people around you.)

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    "I've been standing here for 5 mins and you don't even say hi?"

    "You, come here." (pointing at them locking eye contact. great presence)
    "Why?"
    "Because I said so." (Mentality: You are the prize and you command for what you want. )

    I usually put my hand out with an extended arm and let them grab it. Then pull them in.


    And the bests two that I use all the time because its so easy and universal (day game, night game, any game)! You can even combine all these together.

    1.
    You guys seem (X) just wanted to say hello"
    insert for X:
    Fun, cool, friendly, nice, like the party type, like your having too much fun,

    2."Hi my name is (your name)"


    3.
    Start by saying "if you're going to"
    Say what ever the girls doing and end it with "you have to at least say hello."

    "If you're going to stand next to me you have to at least say hello"

    "if you're going to look at me you have to at least say hello"(perfect for when girls are checking you out/IOIs)

    "If you're going to bump me you have to at least say hello"

    "if you're going to be that cute you have to at least say hello"

    Those are pretty much my default ones, but the best reactions i get are from my natural ones that are in the moment. Situational openers

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I've had a fair bit of success with this simple yet potent opener:

    "Hey I'm (your name), and I know this is random since you don't know me and all... But you're really cute. I was wondering if you'd want to grab a drink sometime?"

    I think every single time I used this opener (back when I was single) I got a nice smile out of the girl. It worked a fair bit, but even the times I got rejected, it wasn't that bad since I was able to at least get the girls smiling. =)

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I've heard that you should never compliment a girl's appearance so I would change the "you look cute" part to something like "you seem really nice." Attractive women get complimented all the time and when you say that her defenses automatically go up. I"m sure that applies more to the night time than day time but still I wouldn't use it on the approach regardless.

    Also, I wouldn't introduce myself right away either. Saying that shows too much interest and that you are easy and not a challenge. You need to be a bit mysterious even if you are being direct. You don't want to make it seem like you are trying to hard. Other than that I think it's fine and you do need to be more direct during the day than at night.

    So here's my edited version of the previous poster's approach:

    Excuse me, I know this is really random but I just wanted to say that you seem really cool and are possibly a really fun person(this gets her to qualify herself; after all you don't want to hang out with girls who aren't fun). I'm in a bit of a hurry right now so I don't have a lot of time(this makes you seem like you are busy and not just hanging around trying to chat her up and it also disqualifies you as some sort of stalker)but if you are available, let's get together for some coffee or tea or whatever sometime. Give me your number and I'll contact you sometime soon." Wait at least two days before contacting her but not more than three days. You can either text or call her. It probably doesn't make much difference.

    Notice I didn't ask her for her permission I said "let's." This is a bit more dominant and removes you from the wussy nice guy category. It also is a command that is embedded within the context of the rest of your sentence so you get away with it. You could also say "we'll get together" for some coffee or tea etc but that might be a bit too much even though that's also dominant(even more so than the let's). Also, pause for a second or two right after you say if you are available. When you do this this gives her a chance to let you know if she is taken or not or interested or not. Either way she will probably say something about a boyfriend. You don't want to challenge that. If she doesn't bring it up but is taken then that's beyond you and she isn't that interested in him. So pausing will give you a reason to not continue if she disqualifies herself by mentioning she's taken but oh well. As they say, nothing ventured nothing gained.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I dont know how to open the women on the street without using card tricks so guy's really need this because i wan't to change my opening's......


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