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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I've actually walked up & pulled an ear-bud out of a girl's ear & put it up to mine to see what she was listening to.

    Then I proceeded to razz her & say I was just checking to make sure she wasn't listening to "Kidz Bop".

    Just be playful, fun & confident. That makes a HUGE impression... bigger than some canned routine will.


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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    This thread has so many good ideas...I'm a girl and I like talking to guys about what they should do to get results they want with the woman they want in the way they want.

    Thing is, I'm even scared to post this cause I know women are not exactly the most trustworthy and I definitely do get how insane women can be...

    So I don't feel like I should be posting without mentioning...I know how ridiculous the mind games and nonsense women can use to try to get a guy...

    I just want to help if I can...

    So as far as this topic goes...when I am out in the day and a guy approaches me out of nowhere, it really depends on the situation not the specific approach line...

    There are a few like if you are in a restaurant or see her eating an ice cream cone, you could say: "Hey, where'd you get that? It looks delicious. I have to try it."

    Or you could ask in a supermarket/grocery store: "I'm not really good at cooking but I want to cook dinner for someone ...and this part is really going to depend on the girl you are talking to...some will wonder who you are cooking dinner for...never say you are cooking for another girl because that's obvious and trying to make her jealous will backfire and come off insecure)

    so in the market, it is a lot more "normal" to be approached if there is a NEED that the guy is asking about in his life that has to do with something that is clearly based on the environment...

    Things that AUTOMATICALLY creep me out (creep = obviously not what anyone wants) are when a guy says things like, "Hey...do I know you from ___? Do you come in here every week with your dad?" And lingers...

    I know this is supposed to work according to many but i promise you it doesn't.

    This is a long ramble and I'm exhausted but...just wanted to say...the fact that you try and actually take action to approach shows you are a high quality guy

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I don't know who told you "Hey...do I know you from ___? Do you come in here every week with your dad?" is supposed to work but it's totally LAME and so AFC !!!

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by RocketMan View Post
    i will admit that is true about the effectiveness of getting a woman from a glum state into a happy one, you just made her day. but going up and saying smile to a girl who isnt smiling is pretty dull, how often do u see girls sitting by themselfs smiling? that would jus look weird, so to go up to her and tell her to do that, she would be like what am i just suposed to sit here and smile for the world every second of the day? its like telling her to do something that isnt natural for anyone to do. ive never seen someone always smiling. Go up to her, (if she were sitting down) casually sit in the chair, relaxed and in control and tell her " listen, i know you here this a dozen times a day, i dont know why i had to come sit down and tell you this, i feel drawn to tell you that you are stunninly beautiful, (she smiles) just to see you smile has made my day. introduce yourself, pauses are key, it builds antisipation. from there on in do not give her any more compliments, (depending on her rating though) otherwize bust on her, and get her laughing. another one would be to nottice something that really sticks out on the girl you see, such as the shoes that she has on, (something that you know she put on purposely to get notticed) and comment on it.
    I feel like your comment on saying "smile..." is overthinking it. you're just approaching and being "playful" or "cocky-funny" if thats your way. If it gets her talking either way you've opened. now just manage the reactions.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I don't think I've tried to do this many times. Unless you are really skilled and a top level pua I would advise against approaching a woman who is walking in the opposite direction as you. If you do that though you have to make it seem like what you are going to say is very urgent(ie you need directions or some other assistance)and not make it seem like you are trying to pick her up. If she is sitting down then that's much better and you can just talk about whatever.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    You know for me. What seems to work is not using any pickup lines at all. I just block their path, and stare at their face. Just kidding lol. What I do is I just enter into a normal conversation regarding anything really. The same way as if it was just some non-attractive girl on the street. Talk to her like you already know her, or just want to be personable. Your tone whenever you're doing this has to be very nonchalant though. I'd usually just start it with.

    "Hey, What's up? What are you up today?"
    If you can nail this tactic she will feel like you are someone she already slightly knows. If she's carrying a bag of anything talk about what she got. Then after you've had a decent conversation for a couple minutes. Just say, "Listen I have to go, but I really enjoyed talking to you. Why don't you give me your number, and maybe we can continue this conversation later?"

    Of course you have to actually have a good conversation for this to work. If you are leaving tons of time in between exchanges then of course it won't work. You really have to be confident in order to do this, but it works like a charm. Because of the way this approach works she won't find you threatening the same way she would if you used a pick-up line.

    Don't try this if she's walking in the opposite direction as you. Sorry thought I'd throw that in there. Works best if she's by herself or walking in the same direction as you.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Really you can just try anything as an opener. You'll probably experience failures, but if you just keep trying you will soon stop caring, and once you reach that zone you'll be so confident that you can come up with clever things to say in the spur of the moment without even planning them.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Open from in front. Just walk up and say whatever it is that is on your mind. It's a lot easier than having a routine and making sure you don't stumble over your words.
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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Flirting and dating are different things
    An approach may lead to some good flirting but the aim is dating, isn't it?
    My opinion is that any means of direct approach is a dlv sign unless the girl you approach is much lower in looks etc.

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    Default Re: How To Open A Girl In The Street

    Haha didn't read everything on this thread but you have some solid openers in there.
    1 choose a busy area
    2 do some warm ups, ask for directions 5 times for example
    3 when you see a girl you like go up to her and ask: "how tall are you?"
    4 use some observation or cold read to transition into conversation
    5 don't forget ftc

    tadaa done deal.


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