Great post guys! thanks for the info =)
The most important aspect of the game is to get rid of Approach Anxiety. It doesn't help you at all, it just ruins your chances of becoming a real man. Think a little bit! Do you have something to lose if you approach a girl? Will she kick you on the spot? NOOO!! Forget about your limiting beliefs and test out many openers and see what works for you.
Ask for directions to a 5 star hotel
I think street game is so difficult, in fact I've never successfully gamed anyone on the street. This inspires me to try harder!
Any opener would work. It's pretty simple day game, night game, is the same. There are only minor differences.
The safest bet is situational opners
gonna try that
Try using a functional opener. Draw it out a little, then remark "Now that I'm already talking to you..." and finish it off with an indirect opinion opener. After that of course you need to transition, then build attraction,... - you know the routine.
Hope this helps.
Last edited by Green; 11-06-2011 at 07:51 AM.
It was a while back but it was something along the lines of.
Me: Hey, life is too short to frown. Nothing is better than a smile.
Her:Sorry but kinda tough to smile right now.
Me: There is not one situation in the world that can stop me from smiling.
Her:My best friend passed away yesterday.
(at this point I tried to show a more sympathy in my look to her and then quickly moved on)
Me: I'm sure she'd want you to be smiling now. Your friend is in a better place, so should your mind.
Her:Thanks, that's sweet of you.
Me: Anytime! Don't let it get you down too much.
(I then picked up my iPad and continued to read - less than 5 minutes later she asked if she could sit down with me and just vent a few things)
The conversation went on and we spent maybe a minute talking about how she felt bad and I kept telling her the best thing is to move on and remember how great her friend was.
I was able to switch over to talking about Ferraris (she had a Ferrari cover on her phone so I thought it would be an interesting topic to discuss with her).
At the end, I was friendly, didn't put too much effort into flirting or whatever. I just kept myself level headed and was myself. I excused myself and told her I had to run. She asked me if I could just stay a bit longer cause I was making her feel better. I told her something stupid like "I'm off to save the world, it's not easy being spiderman". She smiled and then asked me for my number. Gave it to her and said something stupid again like "if I dont' answer, don't feel bad - I'm probably slinging around some buildings catching some fresh air".
Morale of the story: I think you could open up with anything as long as you are observant and able to keep your cool. Even in times of tragedy, you can get a number without playing any games. Just be yourself and if she doesn't like it - keep your cool and just move on. Plenty of fishies in the sea my friends.
EDIT: By no means am I saying, try and pick up a girl who's in a tragic situation. But my point is, they're human and have feelings. Don't go on and try to get the number, chances are she'll figure out a reason that is good enough to talk to you or see you again if you really shine your OWN personality at her. Took me a while to realize this and I've never turned back.